Smacking

[Kylies Stunt Arse]

I've just read this BINFEST from the beginning and Nipple may have had a valid point but has managed to completely ruin any chance he had of being taken seriously by getting so wound up. What an absolute arsehat!

Opinions stated as facts are such a stupid way to conduct any debate, and you lose all credibility when it turns out that you haven't raised a child yourself. Stick to the man sex gags with Les. They never get dull.

 

[Seagullible]

Firstly a decent parent would not raise a child to misbehave in public and secondly you can bleat on about discipline all you like and it being an extension of love etc but there are many forms of discipline, smacking being the laziest and in the long run the least effective.

not read the last 2 pages but please, mr parent of the year, do you guarentee how a child can be raised not to misbehave. Sometimes you havew to go that bit further and smack their little bottom. Provided it is as a last resort and you have tried everything, making the child have pain often ends up being a deterent to future bad behavior

 

[Nibble]

Looks someone should have given you a few digs as a kid, the maybe you wouldn't have grwon up to be such a weasly, whiny, pedantic, obsessive little shit.




maybe his mum should have smacked him as a child aswell ?

Why don't you run along with your little playmate, surely there are some four year olds you could be picking on - probably more your thing.

(this is gonna be in childish ramblings before long isn't it?)

 

[Buzzer]

I did try you know. I was ready with the group hugs. The children of Mile Oak were going to soothe the furrowed brows with a close harmony version of eidelweiss. I had scented candles, I'd hired out the peace centre and everything.

Honestly, if my kids carried on like this lot I'd have given them such a hiding.












Oh, yeah

 

[Nibble]

I've just read this BINFEST from the beginning and Nipple may have had a valid point but has managed to completely ruin any chance he had of being taken seriously by getting so wound up. What an absolute arsehat!

Opinions stated as facts are such a stupid way to conduct any debate, and you lose all credibility when it turns out that you haven't raised a child yourself. Stick to the man sex gags with Les. They never get dull.

Why don't you stick to keeping your mouth shut. You don't need to have a child to know it is wrong to hit one.

Bunch of feeble minded morons. Of course I get wound up. I've got pinky and perky having digs. Thats what happens with wind up merchants.

 

[Rusthall Seagull]

I've just read this BINFEST from the beginning and Nipple may have had a valid point but has managed to completely ruin any chance he had of being taken seriously by getting so wound up. What an absolute arsehat!

Opinions stated as facts are such a stupid way to conduct any debate, and you lose all credibility when it turns out that you haven't raised a child yourself. Stick to the man sex gags with Les. They never get dull.

Exactly - NOBBLE did have a valid point but by associating Child abuse to any parent who has smacked their child is as outrageous as it is ludicrous.

 

[Nibble]

not read the last 2 pages but please, mr parent of the year, do you guarentee how a child can be raised not to misbehave. Sometimes you havew to go that bit further and smack their little bottom. Provided it is as a last resort and you have tried everything, making the child have pain often ends up being a deterent to future bad behavior

For the third f***ing time I have alrwady retracte dthat statement. And you and I are gonna have to differ on that opinion. I don't think smacking should be any resort at all.

 

[Nibble]

Exactly - NOBBLE did have a valid point but by associating Child abuse to any parent who has smacked their child is as outrageous as it is ludicrous.

hmmm.

 

[Rusthall Seagull]

Why don't you stick to keeping your mouth shut. You don't need to have a child to know it is wrong to hit one.

Bunch of feeble minded morons. Of course I get wound up. I've got pinky and perky having digs. Thats what happens with wind up merchants.

How many times do I have to tell you NUBBLE it's Rusthall and not RUSTHOLE or PERKY - honestly, I despair.

....BOZZA, I have PM'd you about coming over at the weekend to do some tricks on my BMX....

 

[Rusthall Seagull]

hmmm.

yep, KSA is coming over to play too..... you are just jealous.

 

[Nibble]

Exactly - NOBBLE did have a valid point but by associating Child abuse to any parent who has smacked their child is as outrageous as it is ludicrous.

If you look back you will see that I tried to settle it but then got called a **** again. So yeah, I did get wound up. And if that has ruined my argument then perhaps you should look at the people doing the winding up.

 

[Gwylan]

We do not smack, never have and never will. My children have been raised in a home where we use consequences. You do not eat your dinner, fine you are hungry all night. You do not put your clothes in the laundry basket, fine you will not have clean clothes and have to wear your old stuff. You break a window, you take the money from your savings to pay for it. You don't tidy up your toys, fine I assume they are going in the bin and round them up. You kick your sister under the dinner table, you are asked to leave the table until you want to behave. You tell a lie, we talk about why/what/how the reasons behind that. You answer back, we talk about the how/why/what that led to it. My children have choices, time outs, consequences, positive reinforcement.

Absolutely. I don't understand this modern trend that equates no smacking with lack of discipline.

Our children have consequences and are clearly told that if they don't do as they're told they will have to face those consequences but we've told them that we'll never hit them.

We do our best to stop our daughter picking on her little brother and we do that by making it clear that hitting is not tolerated in our household - I really don't see how you can stop children hitting one another if you hit them: you're on dangerous moral ground.

 

[Kylies Stunt Arse]

Why don't you stick to keeping your mouth shut. You don't need to have a child to know it is wrong to hit one.

Bunch of feeble minded morons. Of course I get wound up. I've got pinky and perky having digs. Thats what happens with wind up merchants.

But you clearly have no experience of how far they push you. You don't know how you'll react then. You're getting properly wound up by words on the internet to the point where you're abusive yet you state as fact that you would never get to the point where you would smack a child. The only FACT here is you don't know how you'd react as you've never been in that situation. And don't give me all that old bollocks about spending lots of time around kids as it's not the same when they aren't your kids. Someone else has already said on this thread that, like you, they were totally against smacking children until they had one of their own and now they realise that used correctly it is an effective tool to teach the child about discipline. Used correctly is the key here. Not beating 7 barrels of shit out of them. Not smacking the kid as the first option for correction.

 

[Buzzer]

 

[Nibble]

But you clearly have no experience of how far they push you. You don't know how you'll react then. You're getting properly wound up by words on the internet to the point where you're abusive yet you state as fact that you would never get to the point where you would smack a child. The only FACT here is you don't know how you'd react as you've never been in that situation. And don't give me all that old bollocks about spending lots of time around kids as it's not the same when they aren't your kids. Someone else has already said on this thread that, like you, they were totally against smacking children until they had one of their own and now they realise that used correctly it is an effective tool to teach the child about discipline. Used correctly is the key here. Not beating 7 barrels of shit out of them. Not smacking the kid as the first option for correction.

In all honest and ranting aside I can assure you, no-matter how much my kids wind me up I won't hit them, lightly, smacking or whatever. It is something I firmly believe in.

I think you telling me I don't know how I would react is underestimating my belief in not smacking. It may be hard to believe for parents who do resort to physical violence against their child but not all parents do that. Really, they don't and I know for a FACT I will not smack any child.

I am not having a go at anyone I just think it is abuse and bullying. But that is just me.

 

[wehatepalace]

I'd like to teach the world to sing .............................

In perfect harmony

 

[Nibble]

I have to say I might give this little turd a wallop!

 

[Rusthall Seagull]

I have to say I might give this little turd a wallop!

Is that you joking again ?

 

[Goodfella]

Can't f***ing leave it can you you twat? Even when you have been given an out from your daft arguments you have to sneer back and call me a ****. Little watery digit that you are. f***ing Keyboard warrior. You come across as some weasly little suck up shitbag. Exactly like I said earlier- insult someone as you are running away. You are a joke, a f***ing pair of clown shoes. You and your buddy. f***ing dick.

You were making a proper dick of yourself and I tried to turn it into a joke and you still can't take the hint and shut the f*** up. You have some serious f***ing issues, you cannot debate properly you just bang on that someone said this and someone that like a little maggoty schoolchild. Looks someone should have given you a few digs as a kid, the maybe you wouldn't have grwon up to be such a weasly, whiny, pedantic, obsessive little shit.

You sit there winding people up and going on and on and on and say shit like WOOO, Mr Angry! Of course people get angry with you, people get angry at all snivelling little shits who like to wind up but never add anything useful.

You are a pedantic shitheel.

Hmmm..............

 

[Dave the OAP]

. I've got pinky and perky having digs. .