[Help] Private Investigator.....adultery

[Harry Wilson's tackle]

It would be a dream come true, if this woman had got mixed up in a bizarre ménage à trois with the Fairy and his assistant. Imagine the role-play and uniforms....

To be fair, I suspect Das Reich is a no-nonsense missionary position man, whether she's ready or not

 

[The Merry Prankster]

I’m not a divorce lawyer BUT IMHO when it comes to divorce/money/kids etc it won’t make a blind bit of difference if she’s shagging someone during the marriage. Not a jot. Where he could lose out however, particularly re seeing the kids, is if she finds out you’ve been stalking her. A lawyer could easily use this to present your friend as a potential danger to her and them.

Very much this, ya weirdo.

 

[Questions]

At what point is the contract killing introduced in this story ?

 

[The Large One]

Personally don't agree with people saying to stay out of it. Sounds like an abusive relationship, of one of my mates caught my missus cheating and didn't tell me I'd be well pissed off.

Does it? In what way?

 

[Pevenseagull]

I've only read the first 20 posts on CSI slut ....wowza this shit has wheels

 

[Wellesley]

The victim: One of the other dads at kids football
The missus: Pure bitch
The innocent: Kids and husband


Okay so, a man I have known for several years now is basically being kick out of his house, he is in a mess. I am convinced she is screwing someone, apart from her husbands pocket (which she also doing).

It has been brought to my attention she has been staying around her mums every other weekend, yeah right, unfortunately he believes her. I know different as I could see how she was going to have him over, so I found out where her Mum lives and went there 6.00am one Sunday morning and car was not there. No surprise to me.

But she is going out somewhere tonight, I don't know the time but I wanted to follow her to get some proof for him when he is ready to take it.

So the questions are:

1) What can and can't I actually do?
2) What evidence would I need to prove adultery?
3) Can I legal attach a tracker to vehicle?
4) Could she legally stop him from seeing the kids for any reason?

For f***s sake, is that you Dave? I knew I shouldn't have told you anything.

 

[birthofanorange]

To be fair, I suspect Das Reich is a no-nonsense missionary position man, whether she's ready or not

Thanks for that...I'm eating.

 

[lawros left foot]

To be fair, I suspect Das Reich is a no-nonsense missionary position man, whether she's ready or not

She’s always ready.

Well, when she’s fully inflated, anyway.

 

[Surf's Up]

NSC Gold already....

 

[Billy the Fish]

Does it? In what way?

Mouldy mentioned loss of self esteem, that's how it starts.

 

[Paulie Gualtieri]

Very interested in the available budget for this one


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[Pavilionaire]

Ok, so has she gone out yet?

 

[jackanada]

I needed some light relief, and by God, I have it in spades...Sam Spades.

Not familiar with Sam Spades. Sam Snatch from the Pussyman bongo movies seems more appropriate.
[Cue music] Snatch Snatch - in search of the ultimate pussy
Snatch Snatch - he's a **** hungry private eye

 

[Swansman]

Someone need to go to Mouldys place to see if he really went to that womans place

 

[Pretty Plnk Fairy]

Your being very harsh on the missus though

#AllWivesMatter

Regards

DF

 

[Deleted member 2719]

Anti climax guys, she was gone before 5.00 pm When I got there.

So I went around to see my parents.

Just to reiterate for those that have not read the whole thread, I was NEVER going to TELL the friend of this AFFAIR, just keep it if he needed later in court for divorce proceedings.

You’re a good man mouldy, and a good friend.

Thanks, CR, I am old fashion and don't want to see this guy screwed over as he is a great father to his kids from what I have heard and seen, not many about like him.The things I do for mates!
I once found out my mates' girlfriend was putting herself about, so I told her one to one to stop now or finish it, fortunately, she picked the right option for both of them. Yes they still both speak to me!

You had my quality advice on the first page. Don't get involved.

Is that your professional or personal advice?

I’m not a divorce lawyer BUT IMHO when it comes to divorce/money/kids etc it won’t make a blind bit of difference if she’s shagging someone during the marriage. Not a jot. Where he could lose out however, particularly re seeing the kids, is if she finds out you’ve been stalking her. A lawyer could easily use this to present your friend as a potential danger to her and them.

I take what you say on board, but how the hell would anyone think I am a danger to anyone baffles me if the odd speeding ticket qualifies then I am stuffed!

So, you got up at god knows what time on a Sunday morning to go round the house of a mate's wife's mother at 6am, just to see if her car was there? You're actually entertaining spending your own money to hire a PI to follow somebody else's wife around? Do you not think that's a bit weird?

If this is really you, rather than a "friend", then it'd be a lot easier to come out and voice your suspicions to her (though if you're living what appear to be separate lives anyway, I'm not sure what purpose it'll serve in practical terms).

If it's genuinely somebody else you're talking about, then you'd be a far better mate by just being there for him if and supporting him when it all goes tits up, as opposed to stalking his ex wife when you only know his side of the story.

I get up early every morning I don't like wasting the day. It really is no skin off my nose to put my hand in my pocket to help out decent people when they are in trouble.

This really isn't me I have been happily married for 20 years now.

I am there for him as a friend, he has opened up a lot to me because I felt he wanted to. I have done this many times over the years and spent hours helping mates through their grieving.I might not appear to be caring because I am quite direct, but I know when to empathise with people.
I really don't see it as stalking more supporting, I really am not looking to get in a confrontation with the lover. Just help the victim, is that really so wrong?

 

[WATFORD zero]

Anti climax guys, she was gone before 5.00 pm When I got there.

So I went around to see my parents.

Just to reiterate for those that have not read the whole thread, I was NEVER going to TELL the friend of this AFFAIR, just keep it if he needed later in court for divorce proceedings.



Thanks, CR, I am old fashion and don't want to see this guy screwed over as he is a great father to his kids from what I have heard and seen, not many about like him.The things I do for mates!
I once found out my mates' girlfriend was putting herself about, so I told her one to one to stop now or finish it, fortunately, she picked the right option for both of them. Yes they still both speak to me!


Is that your professional or personal advice?


I take what you say on board, but how the hell would anyone think I am a danger to anyone baffles me if the odd speeding ticket qualifies then I am stuffed!





I get up early every morning I don't like wasting the day. It really is no skin off my nose to put my hand in my pocket to help out decent people when they are in trouble.

This really isn't me I have been happily married for 20 years now.

I am there for him as a friend, he has opened up a lot to me because I felt he wanted to. I have done this many times over the years and spent hours helping mates through their grieving.I might not appear to be caring because I am quite direct, but I know when to empathise with people.
I really don't see it as stalking more supporting, I really am not looking to get in a confrontation with the lover. Just help the victim, is that really so wrong?

Attention cry desperate for

What do your PI skills make of this mystery

 

[nwgull]

Weird that Mouldy is so invested in another bloke’s marital issues, from the use of emotive words to describe the woman in question, to considering paying for a PI out of his own pocket to get evidence of adultery.

His friend would do well to get a free half-hour consultation with a family law solicitor and have the concept of the U.K.’s no-fault divorce laws explained to him. Sounds like the woman has checked out of the marriage, and her infidelity will make not one bit of difference to the divorce settlement.

This is why marriage is to be avoided, guys!

 

[Guinness Boy]

 

[Harry Wilson's tackle]

Very disappointing