It would be a dream come true, if this woman had got mixed up in a bizarre ménage à trois with the Fairy and his assistant. Imagine the role-play and uniforms....![]()
To be fair
It would be a dream come true, if this woman had got mixed up in a bizarre ménage à trois with the Fairy and his assistant. Imagine the role-play and uniforms....![]()
I’m not a divorce lawyer BUT IMHO when it comes to divorce/money/kids etc it won’t make a blind bit of difference if she’s shagging someone during the marriage. Not a jot. Where he could lose out however, particularly re seeing the kids, is if she finds out you’ve been stalking her. A lawyer could easily use this to present your friend as a potential danger to her and them.
Personally don't agree with people saying to stay out of it. Sounds like an abusive relationship, of one of my mates caught my missus cheating and didn't tell me I'd be well pissed off.
The victim: One of the other dads at kids football
The missus: Pure bitch
The innocent: Kids and husband
Okay so, a man I have known for several years now is basically being kick out of his house, he is in a mess. I am convinced she is screwing someone, apart from her husbands pocket (which she also doing).
It has been brought to my attention she has been staying around her mums every other weekend, yeah right, unfortunately he believes her. I know different as I could see how she was going to have him over, so I found out where her Mum lives and went there 6.00am one Sunday morning and car was not there. No surprise to me.
But she is going out somewhere tonight, I don't know the time but I wanted to follow her to get some proof for him when he is ready to take it.
So the questions are:
1) What can and can't I actually do?
2) What evidence would I need to prove adultery?
3) Can I legal attach a tracker to vehicle?
4) Could she legally stop him from seeing the kids for any reason?
To be fair, I suspect Das Reich is a no-nonsense missionary position man, whether she's ready or not
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To be fair, I suspect Das Reich is a no-nonsense missionary position man, whether she's ready or not
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Does it? In what way?
I needed some light relief, and by God, I have it in spades...Sam Spades.![]()
You’re a good man mouldy, and a good friend.
Is that your professional or personal advice?You had my quality advice on the first page. Don't get involved.
I take what you say on board, but how the hell would anyone think I am a danger to anyone baffles me if the odd speeding ticket qualifies then I am stuffed!I’m not a divorce lawyer BUT IMHO when it comes to divorce/money/kids etc it won’t make a blind bit of difference if she’s shagging someone during the marriage. Not a jot. Where he could lose out however, particularly re seeing the kids, is if she finds out you’ve been stalking her. A lawyer could easily use this to present your friend as a potential danger to her and them.
So, you got up at god knows what time on a Sunday morning to go round the house of a mate's wife's mother at 6am, just to see if her car was there? You're actually entertaining spending your own money to hire a PI to follow somebody else's wife around? Do you not think that's a bit weird?
If this is really you, rather than a "friend", then it'd be a lot easier to come out and voice your suspicions to her (though if you're living what appear to be separate lives anyway, I'm not sure what purpose it'll serve in practical terms).
If it's genuinely somebody else you're talking about, then you'd be a far better mate by just being there for him if and supporting him when it all goes tits up, as opposed to stalking his ex wife when you only know his side of the story.
Anti climax guys, she was gone before 5.00 pm When I got there.
So I went around to see my parents.
Just to reiterate for those that have not read the whole thread, I was NEVER going to TELL the friend of this AFFAIR, just keep it if he needed later in court for divorce proceedings.
Thanks, CR, I am old fashion and don't want to see this guy screwed over as he is a great father to his kids from what I have heard and seen, not many about like him.The things I do for mates!
I once found out my mates' girlfriend was putting herself about, so I told her one to one to stop now or finish it, fortunately, she picked the right option for both of them. Yes they still both speak to me!
Is that your professional or personal advice?
I take what you say on board, but how the hell would anyone think I am a danger to anyone baffles me if the odd speeding ticket qualifies then I am stuffed!
I get up early every morning I don't like wasting the day. It really is no skin off my nose to put my hand in my pocket to help out decent people when they are in trouble.
This really isn't me I have been happily married for 20 years now.
I am there for him as a friend, he has opened up a lot to me because I felt he wanted to. I have done this many times over the years and spent hours helping mates through their grieving.I might not appear to be caring because I am quite direct, but I know when to empathise with people.
I really don't see it as stalking more supporting, I really am not looking to get in a confrontation with the lover. Just help the victim, is that really so wrong?