What to do

[Mellotron]

There is great potential for humour there, and bad sitcom style japery, if you pretend to be scouse to her parents/family so they don't have to worry about the long distance thing.

 

[Nibble]

You are 21. Who gives a tinkers f*** whether they approve or not. Do not go to the airport though. Life is not a movie you will look desperate.

 

[Nibble]

You will think you will appear like this....

You will in fact appear like this...

 

[John Dorian]

haha..nibble thanks, made me laugh out loud.

hav u had a bad experience or something ud like to share ?

 

[Nibble]

haha..nibble thanks, made me laugh out loud.

hav u had a bad experience or something ud like to share ?

I have done my share of romantic gestures, some have worked others have been a bit non eventful. In all seriousnes it will not be good if she hasn't told her folks, and she may be a bit overwhelmed and uncomfortable with such a big gesture at an early stage. If it were me I would just send some flowers to her house for when she gets home, saying you missed her or summat.

 

[John Dorian]

Message noted and understood, Nibble. I'm still umming and arring tho.

 

[Nibble]

Message noted and understood, Nibble. I'm still umming and arring tho.

The choice is yours but.......

 

[JJ McClure]

..I've been in a relationship with a girl from Liverpool for just over a month.....

..She went on holiday for 3 weeks the other day, and flies back in the first week of October...

Don't bother, she'll have forgotten who you are.

 

[British Bulldog]

I dont allways agree with Nibble but on this occasion I think he's got it right.

 

[John Dorian]

I've added a poll as i've lost count for who is for and who thinks its a bad idea..

 

[SNOOBS]

Don't do it

What if she gets out to the airport with another bloke, what if another bloke is meeting her there. Surely she will have other arrangements as well

 

[Skint Gull]

You will think you will appear like this....

You will in fact appear like this...

That it f***ing BRILLIANT! I'm with the Nibble on this one

 

[John Dorian]

ok, point taken, btw there is no other bloke..

should I break the surprise and text her askin if its ok, or not bother and turn up anyway, or just not bother and sleep in and ring her when I know she has landed...

 

[CHAPPERS]

Why don't you let her know you've got some time off and ask if she wants to do something? She may be too TIRED and that.

I didn't really think this through when giving my previous thoughts on the matter.

Plus Manchester is real far away.

 

[Couldn't Be Hyypia]

FFS JD - get a grip and be a man. Just DECIDE and do it.

 

[Brighton Breezy]

ok, point taken, btw there is no other bloke..

Would she tell you if there was?

Similar to Chappers I didn't think this through. Why not text her and say you have a few days off and was thinking of popping up to see her and spending a couple of days with her?

It is still a nice and thoughtful but less of a shock. She may like you meeting her at the airport but may be too tired to actually do anything other than go home and sleep. Would probably more appreciate a nice couple of romantic days out once she has got over her holiday.

Play it SAFE.

 

[Franks Wild Years]

Find out what her plans are and let her know you've got some time off. If she seems to be busy with family stuff then maybe don't go. If however she seems at a loose end and pleased to hear from you then get yo ass up there jack.
I once travelled to Amsterdam to visit a lady I'd only been seeing for a couple of weeks. I ended up staying for 2 years !!
Ah shit, just get up there. If she's had a bad time recently her folks will be impressed that you made the effort to travel that distance to see their lovely daughter.

 

[One True BHA]

she has probably been sucking cock for fun on her 3 week holiday. if you want to greet her at the airport with a kiss and smell her come breath, then go for it.

 

[SULLY COULDNT SHOOT]

I'm back...and online, t'internet at work f***ed up. Thanks for all the support, im at work so no pics are available plus I know she'd go mad...

I know it will go well, she is with all her family, all 6 of her siblings and mum and dad and the bf's and gf's of all the siblings, I didn'g go because they didn't know about me this time...altho she wants me to come with her next time which is a good thing. Also, her birthday is in November and she said that I will meet her parents well before that so there is opportunities later on..

The only problem is is that she WON'T KNOW i'm goina be there, so I don't really know what reaction I would get...which is a little scary.

Why don't you just text her and tell her you want to be there to meet her and does she think it will be alright.

Yes you'll miss out on the surprise but you'll get lots of brownie points for thinking about her and her family.

 

[Redhead]

Just go for it, lifes too short and you'll only regret it if you don't.