Yes democracy in action
Where the people who are entitled to vote and use that entitlement can enforce change.
46,501,241 Electorate entitled referendum voters
17,410,742 Vote Leave-Winners
16,141,241 Vote Remain- Losers
12,949,258 Not bothered, just go with the flow and let others decide for them whatever the outcome.
Your problem with democracy appears to stem from the fact you lost a democratic vote, ill leave you to work out how stupid that mindset is
We can argue until the cows come home about how "democratic" the vote was. 16-18 year olds not allowed to vote (despite being the most impacted, having to pay tax, being able to serve in the armed forces, etc). EU nationals in the UK not allowed to vote (despite - again - being massively impacted by the vote). Illegal payments to Vote Leave. Russian influence. etc etc. And being told beforehand that the vote was advisory, not binding. And since then, the government being forced to allow parliament to vote on Article 50 after losing a legal case. And the fact that the majority of Vote Leave's promises will not be delivered. All of those things constitute a Brexiteer's definition of democracy.
However, putting all that to one side, the positive aspect of TRUE democracy is that, at some stage in the not too distant future, we will almost certainly have another referendum. So, no matter how much the Leave campaign celebrate their "victory", there WILL be a chance to rescue things. Simple demographics will ensure that Remain will win the day. Plus, of course, large numbers of those who voted Leave will have seen for themselves the failure of the Leave campaign to deliver on their promises. Whilst I'm fearful of a "No Deal" scenario, it will be so catastrophic that - as a Remainer looking for a collective change of mind from the British public - it will be the best possible outcome