!! we will precisely not be masters of our own destiny if we sit on the sidelines and let France/Germany write the rules. We have more control of the ship if we have a hand on the wheel.
But we WILL be masters of our own destiny if we get off the ship. They can have as many or as few hands on the wheel of their ship as they wish. Meanwhile we will be in control of our own ship and sail it how we wish with rules set by elected British politicians.