cjd
Well-known member
Am I getting exasperated with you ? Actually I rather think the boot is on the other foot. I think that you do feel a bit uncomfortable about smoking in front of your children hence why you took exception. The point I was referring to is a little bit of a myth though and I can't be bothered to go through it again as it happened a long time ago. Still maybe your attitude to smoking is a sign that you live in the past. Maybe you smack your children as that was once considered acceptable as well.
Why are you asking me if you,re getting exasperated with me ...?
You are quite correct, I am uncomfortable smoking in front of my children. I wish I could be the perfect parent....but of course that,s not really feasible. I
thought I remembered seeing on a post of yours in the past, that you have a son, so I,m sure you understand the difficulties of being a "perfect" parent.
My attitude to smoking is that I am fully aware of the possible consequences of my health and that my life expectancy (taking an average) will be less than a non-smoker. As I have pointed out before in other posts on the "smoking" subject, as most of my working life involved caring for the elderly, I,m far from convinced that a very long life is what I want.
With regard to your last sentence, about the smacking of children, I do have six children and an essential part of aiming towards some form of harmony in our house, is to focus entirely on others ways of discipling our children, and never physical punishments.
Heaven forbid that in the future our children would not be part of our life due to lack of understanding and care.
Just to push the topic back online by the way, .....often the problem with "smokers" "alcoholics" "gamblers" "obese people" etc etc etc....is we often tend to have "addictive" personalties. As fast as a "smoker" gives up one vice, he/she is often likely to start another..............
I don,t drink or gamble or have any other particular vice (other than the Albion) and often wonder what I will replace smoking with if I ever decide (and succeed..?) to give up...