If some people want to get home within a reasonably normal amount of time they have to leave a few minutes early or stay and wait around for 30 mins until the train queues clear up. I have only left early once and I regretted it, walking away still hearing the noise from the crowd inside the stand just felt wrong. Now I just stay, clap the players off and get a beer to nurse for 20 mins or so until the main scrum at the station has cleared.