some dating advice!

[oldalbiongirl]

OK so you are going to laugh at me now and I deserve it as been out for a few drinks with the girls but want some advice. Split up from a year ago and am in mid 30s so a bit out of practice at the whole meeting people nightmare. Think I am ready to go out occasionally and meet with someone but where do you start? Has anyone tried the whole dating at 30+ scene and what awaits me! What a bloody nightmare. Hopefully someone will be able some real advice (with perhaps some NSC banter thrown in for good measure!!!!) Dont know where to start.

 

[Djmiles]

15 pages and at least 2 requests for pictures before the 2nd page....

 

[Ali_rrr]

15 pages and at least 2 requests for pictures before the 2nd page....

This.

 

[Beach Hut]

Chill, relax and be yourself - love will conquer all

 

[Blackadder]

OK so you are going to laugh at me now and I deserve it as been out for a few drinks with the girls but want some advice. Split up from a year ago and am in mid 30s so a bit out of practice at the whole meeting people nightmare. Think I am ready to go out occasionally and meet with someone but where do you start? Has anyone tried the whole dating at 30+ scene and what awaits me! What a bloody nightmare. Hopefully someone will be able some real advice (with perhaps some NSC banter thrown in for good measure!!!!) Dont know where to start.

Just out of interest, why do you call yourself OLDalbiongirl? Mid 30s is not old!

 

[Blue Valkyrie]

OK so you are going to laugh at me now and I deserve it as been out for a few drinks with the girls but want some advice. Split up from a year ago and am in mid 30s so a bit out of practice at the whole meeting people nightmare. Think I am ready to go out occasionally and meet with someone but where do you start? Has anyone tried the whole dating at 30+ scene and what awaits me! What a bloody nightmare. Hopefully someone will be able some real advice (with perhaps some NSC banter thrown in for good measure!!!!) Dont know where to start.

Happy Christmas and take it from there. :beer:

 

[albion534]

f*** all clothing.....west street

Thank me in the morning

 

[GT49er]

Mid 30's? - piece of p**s - I had to try it in my sixties (hard work, but it worked)

 

[Muhammed - I’m hard - Bruce Lee]

mid 30's?

old?

fifty bloody THREE is old

 

[oldalbiongirl]

lol. Oldalbiongirl was to stop people with the threat worthless without pics! haha. It does work as people take me a bit more seriously! Just wondered if people had any good advice as after 18 years out of the whole meeting people scenario its all a bit odd! ... by the way already sobering up and slightly regretting the post! lol

 

[Bwian]

lol. Oldalbiongirl was to stop people with the threat worthless without pics! haha. It does work as people take me a bit more seriously! Just wondered if people had any good advice as after 18 years out of the whole meeting people scenario its all a bit odd! ... by the way already sobering up and slightly regretting the post! lol

Get the pics up before you come to your senses.

 

[seagull 1979]

 

[Muhammed - I’m hard - Bruce Lee]

Just wondered if people had any good advice

no use asking me, to put it in a football analogy........i aint been in the opposition half for about 4 years



seldom in the box,let alone a sniff of goal

 

[skipper734]

Apart from the modern method, internet, if you are comfortable with it. Unless your work brings you in to contact with males, the good old stand by of evening classes or an activity Club of any sort brings you into contact with people, at least you have something in common with. Male friends of your friends, is also a good way to meet people. Pubs and Clubs, no good at all.
To prove a point, two of my ex girlfriends that I have stayed in contact with for over 50 years, one I worked with, and the other I met in the Driuds. She was accompanied by a girl she worked with, who lived a couple of doors away from me.

 

[Cheeky Monkey]

Why do people think age is relevant in dating? People are being 'recycled' out of relationships at all stages of life - divorces/separations etc. happen in the 20s/30s/40s/50s/60s/70s and beyond, no age bracket is any different to any other when you stink about it.

 

[oldalbiongirl]

Why do people think age is relevant in dating? People are being 'recycled' out of relationships at all stages of life - divorces/separations etc. happen in the 20s/30s/40s/50s/60s/70s and beyond, no age bracket is any different to any other when you stink about it.

Yes but when you are out and older, you (I) are more likely to be worried about whether I am interested in someones husband who is not interested in me! Makes me a bit paranoid. Perhaps we should all wear a singles badge! lol

 

[skipper734]

Why do people think age is relevant in dating? People are being 'recycled' out of relationships at all stages of life - divorces/separations etc. happen in the 20s/30s/40s/50s/60s/70s and beyond, no age bracket is any different to any other when you stink about it.

Quite right, but the older you get the more you smell, is that it?

 

[hart's shirt]

Has anyone tried the whole dating at 30+ scene and what awaits me! Hopefully someone will be able some real advice (with perhaps some NSC banter thrown in for good measure!!!!) Dont know where to start.

Start with one and don't go for more than 30 at the same time, regardless of how good the movie scene appears to be.

With your Albion interest, I'd have thought Falmer might have been an ideal hunting ground. Just wait until they finish playing though.

Another NSC social meet-up (meat-up) is long overdue. Get it sorted mods.

 

[Blackadder]

Why do people think age is relevant in dating? People are being 'recycled' out of relationships at all stages of life - divorces/separations etc. happen in the 20s/30s/40s/50s/60s/70s and beyond, no age bracket is any different to any other when you stink about it.

They don't. I was merely enquiring about the OP's user name. GT49er said it was hard work in his 60s (fortunately he was successful).

 

[oldalbiongirl]

Apart from the modern method, internet, if you are comfortable with it. Unless your work brings you in to contact with males, the good old stand by of evening classes or an activity Club of any sort brings you into contact with people, at least you have something in common with. Male friends of your friends, is also a good way to meet people. Pubs and Clubs, no good at all.
To prove a point, two of my ex girlfriends that I have stayed in contact with for over 50 years, one I worked with, and the other I met in the Driuds. She was accompanied by a girl she worked with, who lived a couple of doors away from me.

hadnt thought of evening classes. May even learn something! Might try in the new year.