I'm not a Lesbian but I reckon I could have a decent stab at empathising with how they "think act and feel" because I see myself as a Human being primarily as opposed to an "office administrator"
Your analogy is a poor one.
Hardly empathy is it? So as a "human" I can write a book masquerading as FACT that all Atheists are complete morons and that would be ok would it?
I can explain to everyone how you think, act and feel?
Of course not.