[Help] Private Investigator.....adultery

[The Large One]

And... CUT!

That's a wrap, Luvvies. Same time tomorrow.

"Mouldy, Mouldy, my love, I'm not sure we're quite getting it with the story. You said you're going to tail the woman, then you don't. You've made the main character a bit of wierdo, stalking, curtain-twitching pervert. The audience is confused. You couldn't re-write the plot so it makes a bit more sense, could you? Oh, and can you leave out the gratuitous misogyny - bit icky, that. And the references to not knowing the law. We need a hero who knows what he's doing. OK, luvvie? Looking forward to the re-writes. Mañana, baby, big kiss..."

 

[Megazone]

Slight concern with all this Mouldy Boots is you telling us your mate is at rock bottom . It sounds like he's really struggling. If I were you, I'd forget all this tracking stuff and get over to your mate and try to get him talking about his current mental health. I really hope there isn't some sort of dark story at the end of all this especially as he has kids, but how you're describing his behaviour I just can't feel comfortable reading some of what you're saying your mate is doing. Sounds like he is in real trouble.

Get talking to him. Don't mention any of what you're speculating and just get him feeling a bit more together. If he's constantly messaging you, that can be a very worrying sign. Let him know how how much his kids will always need him. He's lucky to have a mate who cares for him during this time, try to get him feeling that.

Good luck and I hope your mate pulls through.

 

[Harry Wilson's tackle]

Now you're really taking the piss. All those ladies? Since when did blokes never go over the side, FFS?

I am a bit surprised that you have taken this long to suspect that our moldy brains is a bit of a neanderthal.

I'm saddened and, frankly, disappointed.

 

[Weststander]

No chance, if she’s done it now she will do it again. Best thing you can do is talk straight to him and tell him to move out and get himself sorted

Handing her literally everything in an instance.

The husband should seek legal advice before handing over the house.

 

[Harry Wilson's tackle]

Slight concern with all this Mouldy Boots is you telling us your mate is at rock bottom . It sounds like he's really struggling. If I were you, I'd forget all this tracking stuff and get over to your mate and try to get him talking about his current mental health. I really hope there isn't some sort of dark story at the end of all this especially as he has kids, but how you're describing his behaviour I just can't feel comfortable reading some of what you're saying your mate is doing. Sounds like he is in real trouble.

Get talking to him. Don't mention any of what you're speculating and just get him feeling a bit more together. If he's constantly messaging you, that can be a very worrying sign. Let him know how how much his kids will always need him. He's lucky to have a mate who cares for him during this time, try to get him feeling that.

Good luck and I hope your mate pulls through.

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God's blessings

 

[Weststander]

The law was changed in the mid 70s and I don’t think there’s any danger that it’s going to be repealed. We live in a free country and anyone can have sex with anyone else providing it’s between consenting adults. What stops women and men putting it about is being attracted to their partner and their own personal sense of fidelity and loyalty, whether they’re married or not. Why should the law dictate who you should or shouldn’t find attractive?

Maintenance for kids depends on how many there are and the bloke’s annual income, but if she’s having them an extra day per week then yes he’ll have to pay something and £500 per month sounds there or thereabouts for a couple of kids, if not a bit low.

Completely depends on disposable income levels and other commitments. Some ex-partners can barely afford to pay anything in maintenance after life’s fixed costs. Whilst others are required to pay substantial sums.

 

[Megazone]

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God's blessings

Yeah, it was actually David Icke who inspired me to say it

God bless you too.

 

[Cheshire Cat]

Are we sure that Mouldy doesn't actually fancy her himself, even just a tiny bit. He seems way too interested in her not to.

 

[Wrong-Direction]

One more week until the footy starts

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[LamieRobertson]

Do you think we’ll play three at the back

 

[Harry Wilson's tackle]

Yeah, it was actually David Icke who inspired me to say it

God bless you too.

 

[Questions]

Me and my wife were happy for 25 years........ then we met.

 

[clapham_gull]

Unfortunately, he thinks he can still win her back at the moment, he is close to rock bottom, he contacts me through text all the time, I will see him at football tomorrow and see how he is doing.

Don't forget to post the conversation on here.

 

[portlock seagull]

Fair enough, I am happy to admit I know nothing about marital law, seems wrong and the law needs changing imo. So does that make it open season for all those ladies to put it about.
The guy told me he wants the kids a minimum of 3 days a week, he would be happy for full custody, can he get that? He said he would have to pay something like £500/month maintenance if the gets them 3 days a week. Does that seem right to anyone

I feel desperately sorry for your mate, and your desire to help is admirable, but you’re really not helping your case for with such phrasing! Btw, men have been doing like wise since, well, Adam.

As many others have said, probably best leave it to them to sort their marriage or divorce out. Just be there for your pal, as sure you will be. Natural to feel angry on his behalf mind, try not to take too far though and best of luck.

 

[OzMike]

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=P9K27HvhDxA

 

[The Clamp]

Just seems a downright weird thing to want to get involved in. There are two people in that marriage, you're not one of them. Leave it.
If you really want to help your mate, tell him to man up and divorce the woman.

Besides which, and more importantly, it's just a ****ing creepy thing to do.

 

[Herr Tubthumper]

The victim: One of the other dads at kids football
The missus: Pure bitch
The innocent: Kids and husband


Okay so, a man I have known for several years now is basically being kick out of his house, he is in a mess. I am convinced she is screwing someone, apart from her husbands pocket (which she also doing).

It has been brought to my attention she has been staying around her mums every other weekend, yeah right, unfortunately he believes her. I know different as I could see how she was going to have him over, so I found out where her Mum lives and went there 6.00am one Sunday morning and car was not there. No surprise to me.

But she is going out somewhere tonight, I don't know the time but I wanted to follow her to get some proof for him when he is ready to take it.

So the questions are:

1) What can and can't I actually do?
2) What evidence would I need to prove adultery?
3) Can I legal attach a tracker to vehicle?
4) Could she legally stop him from seeing the kids for any reason?

What can you do? My advice is to step back, do nothing, and be there for your mate if it all goes tits up.

 

[Jim Van Winkle]

Do you think we’ll play three at the back

Two at the back (one going up the Amex), one up top. Gotta cover all the angles.

 

[Dick Head]

I get up early every morning I don't like wasting the day.

Are you up yet? It's nearly 6 o'clock. You should be thinking about getting up and at 'em. Keep us posted.

 

[Hamilton]

The victim: One of the other dads at kids football

One of the other dads eh?

If your missus is kicking you out, then NSC is a great place to make new friends and I'm sure we can point to a trusted solicitor