I've been through the experience of a parent dying and then arranging everything afterwards inc Finances, belongings, Funeral etc...the one thing that would have really helped is some more idea from my Mum what she wanted. Having those conversations with your Dad, if you can will help. In the UK you need to be named as an executor to adminster a deceased person's estate, if not it's fvck of a lot harder to do. I'm assuming Sweden would have similar rules. (Thinking about bank accounts etc...)
You mentioned your Dad worked on removing Asbestos from old houses, in the UK there is a government run scheme to compensate individuals/families who have been affected by Cancer caused through working with Asbestos, i don't know if this is replicated in Europe.
When it comes to grieving, there is no right or wrong way, i had time to get used to the imminent death of my Mum and so when it happened there was relief on my behalf because she was no longer suffering.
I arranged everything and it was only at the funeral i broke down. It was a release allowing the loss to hit home and however closure works for you is right, but face it though.
It's important to accept it's happening as it allows you psychologically to envisage a world without your loved one in it. That's my take anyway.
As per other excellent posts, i wish you all the very best in everything you're dealing with.
You mentioned your Dad worked on removing Asbestos from old houses, in the UK there is a government run scheme to compensate individuals/families who have been affected by Cancer caused through working with Asbestos, i don't know if this is replicated in Europe.
When it comes to grieving, there is no right or wrong way, i had time to get used to the imminent death of my Mum and so when it happened there was relief on my behalf because she was no longer suffering.
I arranged everything and it was only at the funeral i broke down. It was a release allowing the loss to hit home and however closure works for you is right, but face it though.
It's important to accept it's happening as it allows you psychologically to envisage a world without your loved one in it. That's my take anyway.
As per other excellent posts, i wish you all the very best in everything you're dealing with.