Female/Male Dumpees

[Uncle Spielberg]

I am coming to acceptance that it was not meant to be for me. I reckon I will be on my own forever. Most blokes who find themselves single in their late 40's stay single that is sadly a fact. I had 2 shots and both have crashed and burned. The last one has left me an empty shell. Roz is right but I went back to re light the firework half a dozen times over a year and a half and the end result was the same. Just ain't going to happen mate. Missed out on being a dad and empty and lonely days. Sad case, probably. My signature sums it up. I have just about coped all year with the train crash that is now my life but the last few days have been just crap. Eurovision and a meal for one tonight.

 

[Northstander]

if i was a bird I'd get as much cock as I could, its easier in it!

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

Even an average looking Woman could go to a club and get her drinks brought all night and have 20 offers of a shag. Its much harder for blokes.

 

[¤DãŃn¥ §êãGüLL¤]

Even an average looking Woman could go to a club and get her drinks brought all night and have 20 offers of a shag. Its much harder for blokes.

I think it's just you.

 

[willyfantastic]

I think how old you are makes a difference. At 47 where the f*** do I go now ?. Not that I want to as I have been too badly hurt to consider any sort of dating for sometime. When I was in my 20's when the relationship ended it was down the disco with my mates next weekend and invariably getting back on the pull. Now , well its a meal for one and the eurovision for me tonight

top opportunity to go out with your mates (if their wives/girlfriends loosen the leash) as when your in a relationship youll find yourself either missing out on a lot of fun, or bringing the missus along (which in some cases can ruin it if its mostly lads involved) altho its mainly true about women having a better support network, in my case, id say iv got a top team behind me (should anything go wrong)

 

[willyfantastic]

ps. never say never, going by your age is always a bad way to go, it shudnt stop you doing anything, ever............
When one door closes, another opens, im sure youll bag yourself another woman in good time, you just need to stop the defeatist attitude

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

I think it's just you.

The voice and optimism of youth. Thanks mate

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

top opportunity to go out with your mates (if their wives/girlfriends loosen the leash) as when your in a relationship youll find yourself either missing out on a lot of fun, or bringing the missus along (which in some cases can ruin it if its mostly lads involved) altho its mainly true about women having a better support network, in my case, id say iv got a top team behind me (should anything go wrong)

All my mates are married with kids and we get together about once every 6 weeks. Seriously there are no opportunities now and Danny maybe right so thats that.

 

[Lord Bracknell]

Roz and I got together when I was ... er ... 47.

 

[¤DãŃn¥ §êãGüLL¤]

The voice and optimism of youth. Thanks mate

Just saying. I get women approach me and buy me drinks. Then again, I'm fit. You're just feeling sorry for yerself, I've gone home loads of times having not copped off then strangled my dick til there's purple finger shaped bruises on it. It happens.

No point moping around the internet about it, can't you go to a knocking shop or summin?

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

A knocking shop . Yep that will sort it all out

 

[¤DãŃn¥ §êãGüLL¤]

 

[nwgull]

Sounds hard US, but I can guarantee that for every 47 year old bloke out there, there is a 47 year old bird in the same boat. In fact the bonus is that there's also plenty of 30 something birds that go for older men. Keep your chin up and make the most of your freedom.

I think that the 2nd point about support network is very true. Last time I dumped a bird, I was on the verge of going back until I went to visit my parents for the weekend and realised that I'd made the right decision.

 

[Wilko]

Grass is always greener though US. Some of the mid forties blokes I work with would give anything to be a single man again with no nagging, place to yourself, watching as much football and youporn as you like. Rather than focus on the negatives, think about how good you have got it? I am not sure why people think that a relationship is the answer to all lifes problems. I think the happiest moments of my life have all come during singledom to be honest.

 

[Durlston]

I am coming to acceptance that it was not meant to be for me. I reckon I will be on my own forever. Most blokes who find themselves single in their late 40's stay single that is sadly a fact. I had 2 shots and both have crashed and burned. The last one has left me an empty shell. Roz is right but I went back to re light the firework half a dozen times over a year and a half and the end result was the same. Just ain't going to happen mate. Missed out on being a dad and empty and lonely days. Sad case, probably. My signature sums it up. I have just about coped all year with the train crash that is now my life but the last few days have been just crap. Eurovision and a meal for one tonight.

Uncle Spielberg,

I can't begin to imagine how you feel at the moment. It sounds like you're at a low point mate but i honestly believe that things will get better for you soon. You seem like a really nice person on here.

Relationships in the past have left me mentally and emotionally wrecked - i find it hard to trust women now and i'm honest enough to say i've got issues to them which can drive them away sometimes. I've just been unlucky in love so far. Some days it is easy to feel sorry for one's self but there is a big world out there with some people a lot worse off. Things may look bleak now but there will be something good round the corner.

Chin up mate and stay positive. Things WILL work out for you.

Best wishes.

Durlston.

 

[The Grockle]

If I ws 47 and couldn't get a girlfriend I'd just go for a Russian or Eastern European wife, you know the ones you get off a website.

You only live once, why spend your time feeling sorry for yourself when you could be enjoying the pleasures of some 30 year old Russian babe.

 

[skipper734]

All is not lost Uncle. I spent till I was 47. If they were OK I moved them in, they came , they went. I had almost given up, like yourself.
I then tore my Achilles tendon, went down to the pub to get a mate to fix it, he was with a medical student he was trying to get his leg over.
Tried the old blue eyed charm on a girl 20 years younger than myself.One of the first things she said to me was that I was only six years younger than her Dad.
Two years later we were married, ten years later we were divorced, but hey ho
there's a thirteen year old smaller version of me chatting to the other geeks on WOW, on his computer.
Be careful what you wish for.

 

[hart's shirt]

At 47 where the f*** do I go now ?

Back to work?

....or you could try next door at number 49.

 

[Gully]

I am coming to acceptance that it was not meant to be for me. I reckon I will be on my own forever. Most blokes who find themselves single in their late 40's stay single that is sadly a fact. I had 2 shots and both have crashed and burned. The last one has left me an empty shell. Roz is right but I went back to re light the firework half a dozen times over a year and a half and the end result was the same. Just ain't going to happen mate. Missed out on being a dad and empty and lonely days. Sad case, probably. My signature sums it up. I have just about coped all year with the train crash that is now my life but the last few days have been just crap. Eurovision and a meal for one tonight.

Cheer up Unc...I have a mate who is 47 and last year became a dad for the second time, his eldest is only 3...he is with a lovely lady in her late 30's who had been in a previous relationship that didn't work...the saying goes about never saying never...that would seem appropriate here, you never know what is round the corner!

 

[Chicken Runner61]

I read somewhere the longest relationships for a bloke is with a woman that is 5 years younger and whose is also 27% more intelligent than him!