Regardless of rhetoric, that can't true in reality because the minute that clause is invoked, our negotiating position is massively weakened. I do agree with you that we might get some sensible behaviour once the leadership is sorted out. Until then, it's all just posturing.
No you're absolutely right. Let's just abide by the result of a ridiculously tight referendum voted on by 34m voters who didn't have the facts at hand even though there is no way of reversing it if it transpires that this country has made an absolutely massive mistake.
It might not be a mistake of course, but how can we possible KNOW that until an exit deal has been negotiated?
Those that voted Leave had different reasons for doing so, but it seems obvious it was to sever the ties with the political union, no doubt and irrespective of any perceived risk to the economy, it is the majority of the Remainers that perhaps felt their own comfortable position financial or otherwise wasnt worth that perceived risk, it isnt obvious to me that a Remain vote was a vote to validate our membership other than consequence of leaving it.
I think medium term, if we prosper outside of it many Remainers will have absolutely no regrets that the Brexiteers won, whereas if we had Remained the Leavers would still be ideologically opposed to the EU without any significant reform of it.
It is for this reason that the referendum is to me a clear message of intent that our own association with the continued progression of political union has run its course and if as I suspect we can thrive outside of it, the majority of Remainers will quickly accept it.