There have been many comments on this thread that the EU hold all the cards and that they've offered us a bad deal because they can. Well if they've offered us a bad deal, and that's been rejected by parliament, and that then leads to consequences for the countries still in the EU, then yes the EU does need to take some of the responsibility.
I'm not at all suggesting our politicians aren't responsible for the mess, but the EU are also culpable.
Not this nonsense again.
The EU haven’t ‘offered us a bad deal’. They’ve simply stuck to their rules, and refused to offer up benefits of EU membership to a non-EU country
Failing to agree to ‘our’ unrealistic demands, is really, really not something that we can be surprised about, nor upset about.