Da Man Clay
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- Dec 16, 2004
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tommy boy said:
clayton has MASSIVE hands
Thanks for the advice guys and girls. I feel alot better about it after reading some of the stuff on here.
tommy boy said:
clayton has MASSIVE hands
Hatterlovesbrighton said:Yeah you can make it work. My girlfriend of 3 months went to Uni to do a PGCE. We broke up the night before she went, but then we got back together 6 weeks in and have never looked back and 2 years on we are about to buy a house together. We saw each other on average once a fortnight and then longer during the holidays but spoke for at least half an hour every night. In some ways it made it into a really strong relationship.
dwayne said:mine lives in New York
It's great, I hardly ever see her (so can't get wound up), and when I go over there I stay in her swanky Manhattan apartment.
...and she's FIT
Hatterlovesbrighton said:Is that not just like a regular holiday romance. Like shagging the same barmaid when you go to Menorca every year?
Goring Gull said:One thing i'd also add and i might be completely wrong about . Normally someone who goes to uni tends to end up with someoneelse who went to uni - same educational-social level etc. Take a look at your mates at say 25 and how many of them who went to uni are with someone else who did and those who didn';t go to uni tend to be with someone else who didn't. Might just be observations but have a look.
Nobby's Betamax Video said:Funnily enough Goring, 2 years after my rant inducing experience, I buggered off to uni also. Now married to a graduate, as are most of my uni mates. So, in general, don't think you're too far off the mark.
Nobby's Betamax Video said:If the pair of you ain't got the commitment, then it will fail.
Had a few in the past, worst was g/friend going to uni & me staying in Brighton. SHE wanted to demonstrate commitment by getting engaged (begrudgingly agreed). Visited her regularly for a couple of months then, as she got used to uni life & got rid of her homesickness, she started making excuses to stop me visiting.
Lo and behold, she moved out of digs, didn't return calls etc etc. Complete communication blackout. Not knowing whether she was even alive let alone still interested in me, I started going a bit mental.
Needless to say, she'd started seeing this bloke from uni (who I'd even met - if I saw him again I'd break his legs for lack of integrity & respect) and didn't have the balls to tell me for about a month. When she did (& this was the first I'd heard from her for that long) she phoned me at my work - an hour long tear-filled conversation later and it felt like she'd also robbed me of all credibility at work
BITCH!! BITCH!! BITCH!! BITCH!! BITCH!!
DAMANCLAY said:Thats what im worried about, though I am fairly close mates with another girl who lives with her so hopefully I wont have to deal with not knowing whats happening one way or the other. We are both really commited to each other though so hopefully it will work out.
Goring Gull said:Money on it you end up with the girl she's living with.
£10 come back to me in a year.
That'll last a while then you'll be with someone completely different when you25. Seems harsh to thiunk about but enjoy it all while it lasts.
Nobby's Betamax Video said:If the pair of you ain't got the commitment, then it will fail.
Had a few in the past, worst was g/friend going to uni & me staying in Brighton. SHE wanted to demonstrate commitment by getting engaged (begrudgingly agreed).
NMH said:Women always give something up, when they shag, so if you sense that she's becoming distant, you had better start distancing yourself pronto.
Nobby's Betamax Video said:Spotus Onus Goring
Damanclay - after my experience, I had two revelations that appear blindingly obvious but when you're " in luurve / lust" can become hidden:-
1) - If you're a "settle down with 1 girl" man - then other than whoever becomes your "life-partner", your mates come first.
2) - If you end up getting kicked in the nuts, don't do your head in trying to analyse it. I rely on "things happen for a reason", even if it's a crock of shite. Helps you move on.
Sounds like I'm putting a dampener on it, but it was the best thing she could have done. Gave me a kick up the backside, went to uni, met loads of top people, had loads of excellent times and met my wife, had kids etc etc.
You go for it & all the best mate