simon swagbag said:So, you've got to walk around in a state of limbo until NYE when you'll meet up & then SHE'll decide whether to carry on with you.
Sounds like she's dictating the terms to me mate. Perhaps that's the problem, she's turned you into a pushover. It's happened to me in the past.
Bollocks to that mate. You've got to be indifferent. Tell her you've made other plans for NYE & if she wants to meet up it'll have to be another day.
I'm a great believer in the Va Va Voom, as the advert goes. Basically, she don't fancy you no more because you've lost your Va Va Voom, or the phwoar factor, whatever. As soon as you get it back she'll be interested again. Or if she ain't, someone else will be.
Take control. If she don't like it, move on.
Indeed!!
Get out there mate and find another girl...................trust me once you do she will come running back.
Just her hearing that you might have found someone else should do it.
Then you will have to choose