For example, I don’t find a lot of humor in Def Comedy Jam, but that doesn’t mean I think the South should have won the Civil War. It means talking about black women’s weaves is just is not funny to me. It’s not my life experience. I don’t care if you pull a Clockwork Orange on my eyeballs and play Steve Harvey on an infinite loop while feeding me a heroic dose of mushrooms and tickling my feet—I’m not going to crack a smile at a man in purple double-breasted suit. I simply don’t care that white people dance like THIS.
But no one would say the reason I’m bored by most Def Jam-style comics is because I’m a racist. I’m not expected to like it. So why does it have to be misogynistic to think most women aren’t funny?
—KYRIA ABRAHAMS
That's a terrible analogy.
"women aren't funny" - declarative, implies women aren't funny simply by virtue of being women; almost invites people to challenge you so you can tell them they're wrong
"I don't find a lot of humour in comedy def jam" - not about the people, but about the product; indicates you find some humour in it; personalises it into an opinion of taste and indicates passive exchange of opinions on comedy.
It's like saying "Why, when I say 'women can't sing' am I sexist, but when I say 'I didn't enjoy Snoop Dogg's second album' no one accuses me of being racist?"