Why Do I Bother

[RM-Taylor]

Everything always seems to go wrong for me, everything, and when you think hey I might be alright here you get smashed right back down again . In the last 6 months I've lost what I thought was the love of my life, I've lost my best mate as he ran off with her, I've lost so much self esteem and generally just feel like shite all the time, especially now. I just want to be happy, but I guess I'm never gonna be after what's happened in my life. Example, someone says they want you, then they don't, then they do, then you kiss them, then they don't, you tell them how you feel, then they hate you, why oh why do I bother, just feel like giving up to be honest.

 

[pishhead]

Life is like that mate, but just when you think life is shit and can't get any worse something or somebody comes along and disproves everything.
Keep your chin up things will get better.

 

[RM-Taylor]

Life is like that mate, but just when you think life is shit and can't get any worse something or somebody comes along and disproves everything.
Keep your chin up things will get better.

But I've been like this since October, things do look up, but then I just get kicked right back down again like I have been today

 

[Goring Gull]

Might seem bad now, but similar has probably happened to everyone - i split up with who i thought was the love of my life - first girlfriend and was gutted for months - then things just startedto sort themselves out, Ten years later i'm engaged to afantastic woman ( must be to put up with me) bought a house with her and have a cracking 2 year old son.

Strangley enouigh that same girl who broke my heart ended up 5 years later going out with one of my mates and i'm off to their wedding next year. Strange things happen.

Life is all ups and downs - things will get better - it's just when one thing goes wrong it does seem to domino. Just get yourself into something you enjoy try and take your mind off it.

 

[algie]

Your only 16 get over it.You will experiece far worse later in life believe me

 

[RM-Taylor]

Thanks GG.

Everything always seems to go wrong though, I can't think of one good thing that has happened to me in the past couple of months, you think they're good but you take it the wrong way and seem to mess it all up again, and then they hate you, it's just a constant thing that happens to me, if it's not that then it's my health and if it's not that then it's something else. People always say that things will get better and I really hope they do, but they always seem to get a hell of alot worse from my point of view.

 

[RM-Taylor]

Your only 16 get over it.You will experiece far worse later in life believe me

Really helps that does .

People always say get over it, but put yourself in my situation and say it then.

 

[algie]

Really helps that does .

People always say get over it, but put yourself in my situation and say it then.

Been there enough times pal.Think about it.Imagine been married with kids,house etc and your missus has been having an affair.Happens quite alot.Honestly pal it gets much worse in life and all your going through are school boys crushes.

 

[RM-Taylor]

Been there enough times pal.Think about it.Imagine been married with kids,house etc and your missus has been having an affair.Happens quite alot.Honestly pal it gets much worse in life and all your going through are school boys crushes.

Fair enough, but when you go out with someone for 14 months (at my age that's pretty good), realise what she means to me, then she sayd it back, and you're gullable and believe it, then she breaks up with you, and runs off with your so-called best mate and neither ever wants to communicate with you ever again. Then you find your old girlfriend who you become to really like wants you again, then she doesn't, then she does, then she doesn't just gets so confusing at times, why say one thing then something completly different, and then tell them how you feel and they suddenly hate your guts just because you're being honest and trying to get happy, but bang oh no.

Maybe I'm just acting a fool and just want to be happy I don't know.

 

[Goring Gull]

Thanks GG.

Everything always seems to go wrong though, I can't think of one good thing that has happened to me in the past couple of months, you think they're good but you take it the wrong way and seem to mess it all up again, and then they hate you, it's just a constant thing that happens to me, if it's not that then it's my health and if it's not that then it's something else. People always say that things will get better and I really hope they do, but they always seem to get a hell of alot worse from my point of view.

Don't want this to sound patronising - but when your young - you will be quite niave - therefor knock backs seem worse the older you get the easier these things become - i.e your girlfriend take it from me it won't be the last time that you slit up with someone i doubt but next time you'll be more hardened to it. Hopefully not in similar circumstances.

As for Algies comment - i see what he 's getting at probably didn't put it in the best way - believe me things will get bigger and more important as you get older you just have to see it as a challenge. Life isn't easy and it isn't fair - but you only get one crack at it so don't dwell to much on the past and have a good time.

 

[RM-Taylor]

Don't want this to sound patronising - but when your young - you will be quite niave - therefor knock backs seem worse the older you get the easier these things become - i.e your girlfriend take it from me it won't be the last time that you slit up with someone i doubt but next time you'll be more hardened to it. Hopefully not in similar circumstances.

As for Algies comment - i see what he 's getting at probably didn't put it in the best way - believe me things will get bigger and more important as you get older you just have to see it as a challenge. Life isn't easy and it isn't fair - but you only get one crack at it so don't dwell to much on the past and have a good time.

Thanks GG .

I just suppose it's because I'm young, I know there are a hell of alot of people far worse of than me, just feels so bad though.

 

[1066gull]

Keep your chin up things will get better.

I've done this for the past 9 months and NOTHING.

 

[algie]

Thanks GG .

I just suppose it's because I'm young, I know there are a hell of alot of people far worse of than me, just feels so bad though.

Rule number 1


Never keep running back to the same girl or letting her back into your life.Bad mistake which will f*** up your emotions.Your best bit is to move on.He can't be a best mate if he did that to you trust me

 

[algie]

I've done this for the past 9 months and NOTHING.

1066 you funny git

 

[Da Man Clay]

Agree with both those points Algie. Your probably better off without them both no matter how it feels now.

 

[RM-Taylor]

Rule number 1


Never keep running back to the same girl or letting her back into your life.Bad mistake which will f*** up your emotions.Your best bit is to move on.He can't be a best mate if he did that to you trust me

It's not the same girl, it was someone who I went out with before hand before going out with J*****, who I know wanted me back whilst I was with her, but I said no then we had a big argument about it (November 2005), and didn't speak for a year until I was rushed into hospital last month, then after talking it just felt so right over again saying she wants me, then she doesn't as she doesn't know what she wants, then she does and moves on to me, then she doesn't again. I guess I been suckered right back in again, but atleast this one's prettier in my opinion.

http://www.bebo.com/PhotoAlbumBig.jsp?MemberId=18718851&PhotoAlbumId=318744158&PhotoId=3427130047 - that's her

 

[Djmiles]

30 million women in the UK, and you've probably only met a couple of hundred of them. You'll find someone sooner or later

 

[brightonbc]

Everything always seems to go wrong for me, everything, and when you think hey I might be alright here you get smashed right back down again . In the last 6 months I've lost what I thought was the love of my life, I've lost my best mate as he ran off with her, I've lost so much self esteem and generally just feel like shite all the time, especially now. I just want to be happy, but I guess I'm never gonna be after what's happened in my life. Example, someone says they want you, then they don't, then they do, then you kiss them, then they don't, you tell them how you feel, then they hate you, why oh why do I bother, just feel like giving up to be honest.

i remember sitting in my room crying over some bird at 2 in the morning, my dad walked in, i thought i would get a cuddle, instead his exact words were "stop being such a c$*t", best advise i ever had, you will laugh at this one day mate, your better off without the pair of them, go out and enjoy yourself while your still young, i know its hard, but this wont be the last time some doris drives you to the point of going a bit loopy, that i can assure you.

 

[Yorkie]

Two or three years ago a poster called Richie Morris posted something very similar and thought his world was coming to an end.
He got married last summer to a fellow Albion fan and is as happy as Larry (although who Larry is, I haven't a clue)

As said before, everyone goes through this and it's part of growing up.

 

[desprateseagull]

hey dude, dont feel so blue...

life is all about being knocked down 10 times, and getting up 11 times.. and learning from what happened so you dont get caught out / let down, next time.

try a new hobby, go for a bike ride etc.

friends who mess you about like that arent really friends- best to forget them, and move on.