Why can some people be so cruel?

[rospants]

Exactly,

if you dont mind Rospants, i will delete the actual picture from your quote, as i have in my post above.

thats fine

 

[hitony]

thats fine

Thanks, have done it.

 

[glasfryn]

Really wish i'd done that now but i don't believe violence is the answer.I would have been the one guilty of ruining the whole evening.He would of loved that.

To some people having a mental illness is like having HIV.

sounds like a real mate.........................not

we all go through rough times mine was when myself and the first wife split up it was'nt nice ....but did meet lots of people that went through the same.

I know its difficult but try to shrug it off along with the so called mate.
hope this does not affect you to much or for too long

 

[Durlston]

Wow, I bet that girls is upset she missed out on a catch like you.

Anything more pathetic? "I'd really like a girlfriend for Christmas, or if I can't get that can I at least have a shag"

Sounds like you need to grow up chap before you go looking for a girlfriend.

It WAS a pathetic thing to say and i apologise for making it sound disrespectful.It was never my intention.With that kind of attitude i do need to take a long,hard look at myself.

 

[Durlston]

the long terms effects of ecstacy - and his friends - on a generation are oft swept under the carpet, and we don't know the long term 'bigger picture' yet.

i have friends who have used quite heavily and they can slip into 'dark' periods a couple of times a year. add to this insomnia, panic attacks, dependancy on alcohol or more drugs, it's a shitty cocktail.

i predict, over the next twenty years, a wider understanding on mental health issues in this country. the government are getting to grips with occupational stress but cov gull's opinions are what we face from some.

stress, depression, schizophrenia, whatever ... very real issues in the more hedonistic under 40's - in the past folk would just get pissed or whatever, now we have to come to terms with these things. in the 90's and early 00's 2 million pills were taken every weekend apparently.

brave post though - fair play.

House your seagull,

You've summed it up really well.In the long-term there is brain damage with a lack of serotonin(the feel good chemical that everyone has).I can empathise with your friends with the depression,anxiety and panic attacks.Being sectioned was rock bottom for me in 2005.

 

[Selhurst Wonderland]

It WAS a pathetic thing to say and i apologise for making it sound disrespectful.It was never my intention.With that kind of attitude i do need to take a long,hard look at myself.

I'm obviously an outsider here but I've read this thread with interest.
Why feel the need to take a long hard look at yourself FFS??
I'm assuming that you're a young man?
Why would you not be looking to dump your load up some young filly at your age?
It's what being a young bloke is all about!

 

[Bombadier Botty]

If it's Social Anxiety you suffer with you could do worse than look on SA-UK, there are a couple of Albion fans on here:

http://www.social-anxiety.org.uk/

 

[Nibble]

It WAS a pathetic thing to say and i apologise for making it sound disrespectful.It was never my intention.With that kind of attitude i do need to take a long,hard look at myself.

Oh don't listen to anything I say, I'm a numpty. You sound like any other young man and you done nowt wrong, it's your mate who is at fault. Now get out there and fill your boots chap! Enjoy!

 

[Altered State]

What if he had been going out with her for a few months and he confided in her and she then f***ed off

And what if he had been going out with her for a few months, she got to know him well, and was willing, able and happy to offer support within a relationship?

In life we can collect 'friends' who turn out to be people who prevent us from growing our lives. When that happens, we're best off without their company.

It's great that some people on here - probably most actually - are supportive of each other. Choose carefully who you listen to, not just on NSC but everywhere!

 

[Napper]

Get some class A's down you as well

 

[csider]

f***ing wimp, almost cried...........man up

 

[Spanish Seagulls]

With the way the world is today it's an unfortunate side effect that there are a lot of young people with "mental health" issues. I myself went through a phase as I'm sure most people do, I found the trick was to to say "f*** it" & get on with life thinking good thoughts & doing my utmost to build self esteem & self love. Believe in yourself & you will surely find a path to happiness. Keep on keeping on.

 

[H2O]

Yesterday i went up to London to watch Spurs v Wolves and then on to a nightclub to celebrate a mate's birthday.

I had such a great time-apart from having to watch the match. Anyway there was 4 of us in the club and i thought we were all getting on really well.One of the blokes i hadn't met before.I'm always shy meeting new people generally.I met this really nice girl in there and was chatting to her for ages but when i'd come back from the toilets my 'friend' had been talking to her and warned her off me about my fragile mental health in the past that i'd confided in to my mate(who's birthday it was).She made her excuses when i got back and vanished.It totally destroyed my evening.There was absolutely no need to do that.Throughout he wasn't enjoying being there and was just out to make trouble.I wish i'd confronted him now and questioned his motives for it but didn't want to spoil the night for the others.

The journey home just made me realise how cruel some people are in this world.I felt so alone and fought back the tears.I got home at 5.30am and tried to sleep but just feel so upset.I had my heart ripped out and don't feel i can trust anyone at all.Some people on here i know will think it's pathetic that a 31-year old man can get so upset.

Why can't people just be nice to each other? Life is far too short.I feel so low about it all

Hold on a minute, you can obviously meet a girl in a club to have been chatting to her for sometime and getting on yet the only angle this guy had was to talk to her because he knew you and proceeded to slag you off doesnt sound to me as though your the one with the problem

 

[Durlston]

Oh don't listen to anything I say, I'm a numpty. You sound like any other young man and you done nowt wrong, it's your mate who is at fault. Now get out there and fill your boots chap! Enjoy!

What? I sincerely apologised for my comments earlier and you're turning it into a big joke.I really don't want a slanging match Nibble.I always stay out of trouble(like last night when i could have kicked off).You're probably enjoying seeing someone suffering.

 

[Durlston]

Get some class A's down you as well

Really? Do you think i should? I've heard they can f*** you up in a big way though.

 

[Spanish Seagulls]

What? I sincerely apologised for my comments earlier and you're turning it into a big joke.I really don't want a slanging match Nibble.I always stay out of trouble(like last night when i could have kicked off).You're probably enjoying seeing someone suffering.

This doesn't make sense, Nibble has stated that he didn't mean what he said earlier.

They say "There is nothing to fear except fear itself" Whilst this isn't exactly appropriate in this case the sentiment is still right. Don't let your fear of failure or of not being happy stop you from being so.

Get out there & don't let dickheads like your supposed pal get you down, they are haters, nothing good to say but can't shut the f*** up.

Live YOUR life & ENJOY. Allow yourself to be happy & don't give a f*** what any of them has to say, they're not you.

 

[Durlston]

This doesn't make sense, Nibble has stated that he didn't mean what he said earlier.

They say "There is nothing to fear except fear itself" Whilst this isn't exactly appropriate in this case the sentiment is still right. Don't let your fear of failure or of not being happy stop you from being so.

Get out there & don't let dickheads like your supposed pal get you down, they are haters, nothing good to say but can't shut the f*** up.

Live YOUR life & ENJOY. Allow yourself to be happy & don't give a f*** what any of them has to say, they're not you.

Some good advice Spanish Seagulls.

I do feel fear in a big way though and i'm far too sensitive.The only way i feel happy is through drink,drugs or Valium.How sad can you get? I'm sick of being in my own negative mind.It's time for changes and to see my doctor.

I want to draw a line under it now on NSC.Thanks everyone for your support.xx

 

[hitony]

f***ing wimp, almost cried...........man up

You just can't accept that eveyone is built differantly, can you.

I hope for your sake you never suffer with anything like that.

Oh and your comment sums up your age.

 

[csider]

You just can't accept that eveyone is built differantly, can you.

I hope for your sake you never suffer with anything like that.

Oh and your comment sums up your age.

Suffer from what, a mate mugging me off to some strumpet and then crying over it on the way home......

Im 38, so thanks