Why can some people be so cruel?

[Mackenzie]

The good news is that until the intervention of your 'friend' you had overcome your shyness and was doing alright. Try to remember that next time you're out on the town and choose who you go with very carefully!

Your mate sounds like a twat.

 

[coventrygull]

I wouldn't describe anyone I have met who has had mental health issues, and faced up to them, in those terms...that is somewhat dismissive and completely wrong.

A lot of us have to face up to issues mate. Its the way life is. Lesson one be carefull who you confide in. Lesson 2. If a female walks away because of them. She isn't worth it. You can look at it that his mate done him a favour. What if he had been going out with her for a few months and he confided in her and she then f***ed off

 

[Gully]

A lot of us have to face up to issues mate. Its the way life is. Lesson one be carefull who you confide in. Lesson 2. If a female walks away because of them. She isn't worth it. You can look at it that his mate done him a favour. What if he had been going out with her for a few months and he confided in her and she then f***ed off

I agree partly with what you say, we all have issues to face up to, some of those may be our own but many are faced by those who we have contact with on a daily basis.

Lesson one is certainly true, and I agree partly with you about lesson two, except for the fact that he was denied an opportunity to explain in his own terms and at the time of his choosing by the act of a complete and utter knob.

 

[coventrygull]

I agree partly with what you say, we all have issues to face up to, some of those may be our own but many are faced by those who we have contact with on a daily basis.

Lesson one is certainly true, and I agree partly with you about lesson two, except for the fact that he was denied an opportunity to explain in his own terms and at the time of his choosing by the act of a complete and utter knob.

Like I said his mate did him a favour. She could of turned round and said so what and stayed but she didn't. Fickle woman. His mate could of been joking.

 

[porkypie]

The word cock springs to mind, one things 4 sure his not a mate if his going to do that to you, And she cant be a very nice person either if she dos one after that prick feeding her some bollocks!

 

[Lush]

Like others have implied above, it's the 'friend' who has the problem, not you. If he has to make himself feel better about himself by belittling other people, then I feel sorry for him.

 

[John Bumlick]

I had such a great time-apart from having to watch the match.

I'm always shy meeting new people generally.

I met this really nice girl in there

It totally destroyed my evening.

The journey home just made me realise how cruel some people are in this world.

I felt so alone and fought back the tears.

I got home at 5.30am and tried to sleep but just feel so upset.

I had my heart ripped out and don't feel i can trust anyone at all.

Why can't people just be nice to each other? Life is far too short.I feel so low about it all

is this you on said journey home?

 

[Early Doors]

Your 'mate' is obviously very insecure. That's why he has to put others down to make him look good.
As others have said, he's got the problem. Not you

See my pm.

 

[Durlston]

Thanks for the kind replies.There really are some lovely,decent people here on NSC.You've really cheered me up.

What i found so upsetting was the way she left suddenly.We'd been getting on so well.I'd set my heart on getting a girl for Christmas-or at least just a shag.The biggest irony was i'd bought condoms when i went to the toilets!

CoventryGull,i respect your points especially about who you confide in.I made a mistake there.Yes,we all have issues to deal with.

Unfortunately the party drugs destroy lives.They've certainly cooked my brain and i take full responsibility for that.No one else is to blame.

 

[Meade's Ball]

Thanks for the kind replies.There really are some lovely,decent people here on NSC.You've really cheered me up.

What i found so upsetting was the way she left suddenly.We'd been getting on so well.I'd set my heart on getting a girl for Christmas-or at least just a shag.The biggest irony was i'd bought condoms when i went to the toilets!

In the modern age Santa should be delivering lusty dames with minimal self-respect from his elephantine sack. Straight down the chimney and into our arms. He could pick them up again by new year, hose them down both inside and out, and fire them off to the next year's most deserving letterwriters.
Of course he should not just have ladies. He can have duncey, muscular men, eager rabbitspeed-pumping dwarves, heavily-viagraed elderlies and various beasts we'd like to try having a one-off with (in my case a blunt-clawed badger with a smile and the smell of freshly-devoured squirrel on its breath) in his cabinet of possibilities. He has to fairly deal with any market.
I am wittering on now. Ignore.

 

[Nibble]

at least just a shag.

Wow, I bet that girls is upset she missed out on a catch like you.

Anything more pathetic? "I'd really like a girlfriend for Christmas, or if I can't get that can I at least have a shag"

Sounds like you need to grow up chap before you go looking for a girlfriend.

 

[Kinky Gerbil]

Your first mistake was going to watch spurs

 

[Taybha]

the way i see it your mate did you a favour,yep he was prob trying to get in her nix by belittling you but she f***ed you off on his words,so the way i see it she obviously wasnt going to very supportive of your state of mind if he hadnt have said owt.

 

[BLOCK F]

Thanks for the kind replies.There really are some lovely,decent people here on NSC.You've really cheered me up.

What i found so upsetting was the way she left suddenly.We'd been getting on so well.I'd set my heart on getting a girl for Christmas-or at least just a shag.The biggest irony was i'd bought condoms when i went to the toilets!

CoventryGull,i respect your points especially about who you confide in.I made a mistake there.Yes,we all have issues to deal with.

Unfortunately the party drugs destroy lives.They've certainly cooked my brain and i take full responsibility for that.No one else is to blame.

Durlston,you were doing alright up till now,then spoilt itIf you are only after a shag,don't get so upset and find one somewhere else.Oh yes,and choose your friends more carefully in future!!
Anyway good luck with the shag!

 

[Napper]

Toughen up lad.

Forget it and move on.

Birds love confidence, fake it if need be

 

[hitony]

is this you on said journey home?



I really would not have expected anything other than this from you, there are many times (in fact all the times !!) that I wished you just did not contribute anything, as what you do contribute is absolutly nothing !!

 

[WhingForPresident]

Blocking someone's cock is just not on. No matter who's it is and no matter who it is with, it is something you don't do. It's the f***ing laws of being a man.
I find meeting birds im a bar is always a bad idea. You've got the added beer goggle worries, she could end up thinking it's a relationship when you just fancied a quickie, etc etc etc.
I've been in the same boat as you here mate, and i've always had the last laugh on the pathetic little fuckers that go round blocking your cock.
Oh and i agree with Dougal, fake confidence is the way forward
Good luck with the Christmas shag son.

 

[house your seagull]

Unfortunately the party drugs destroy lives.They've certainly cooked my brain and i take full responsibility for that.No one else is to blame.

the long terms effects of ecstacy - and his friends - on a generation are oft swept under the carpet, and we don't know the long term 'bigger picture' yet.

i have friends who have used quite heavily and they can slip into 'dark' periods a couple of times a year. add to this insomnia, panic attacks, dependancy on alcohol or more drugs, it's a shitty cocktail.

i predict, over the next twenty years, a wider understanding on mental health issues in this country. the government are getting to grips with occupational stress but cov gull's opinions are what we face from some.

stress, depression, schizophrenia, whatever ... very real issues in the more hedonistic under 40's - in the past folk would just get pissed or whatever, now we have to come to terms with these things. in the 90's and early 00's 2 million pills were taken every weekend apparently.

brave post though - fair play.

 

[rospants]

is this you on said journey home?




that really wasnt needed was it? You wouldnt like someone taking the piss out of you would you??

 

[hitony]

that really wasnt needed was it? You wouldnt like someone taking the piss out of you would you??

Exactly,

if you dont mind Rospants, i will delete the actual picture from your quote, as i have in my post above.