You might want to ask them that could be one reason. You might want to visit Kenya now that's poverty without any help. No food banks or running water or electric flushing toilets ... funny thing is none of them ever complained not even the school we visited which makes yours look like a palace no doubt. We gave them books and pens and pencils and it was like you gave them the world ... that's poverty
They are also a dirt poor country with no solid infrastructure in many places. We are not. We are the 6th wealthiest nation on earth and we have children going hungry. If the parents aren't budgeting properly then we need to look at our education and social services. In the meantime let's just let the kids starve.