This is probably the worst place to post this...But NSC I need your help.

[nwgull]

"Acting" as the bf... this guy is probably their shoulder to cry on, their light in the dark, their warmth in those cold nights, the one all the girls depend on and and can chat to in their times of need.

Then he bones them all and whilst you think he is protecting the girls playing the "roll" of boyfriend, he is the one you want to watch out for making the move... Unless he is gay then the above can be scrapped.

No, I think you've got this one wrong. This guy has been 'Friend Zoned' by the girls; they don't consider him as worthy shag material at all. He most likely would love to shag them, but has approximately no chance. It's all the other guys who she hasn't met yet that you need to worry about!

 

[SK1NT]

Shit advice; it's never easy finishing with someone unless you really hate them. It's hard because you feel guilty about hurting someone, and in the first few weeks you miss the company and routine of having a regular girlfriend to go out with. It would be weak to go back, and you'd end up being in a relationship that you're not 100% happy with and probably cheating on her in the future.

To say that you may not find anyone like her again is a ridiculous suggestion to make to anyone, but especially to a man in his late teens or early 20s. Chances are that he'll find someone much better that he wouldn't consider dumping after 11 months!

Just trying to make him feel guilty...

 

[nwgull]

Just trying to make him feel guilty...

Really? What has he done to feel guilty about? Finishing a relationship is the most honest and honourable thing to do in this scenario. It just hurts for a bit that's all - for both dumper and dumpee.

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

Really? What has he done to feel guilty about? Finishing a relationship is the most honest and honourable thing to do in this scenario. It just hurts for a bit that's all - for both dumper and dumpee.

Yes I suppose he dumped her before having sex with someone else. I think the dumpee feels far more pain than the dumper though. The dumper, especially if a Woman, has moved on weeks before they finally do the deed and by then most lined up your replacement and will move on without a second thought.

 

[SeagullSongs]

Yes I suppose he dumped her before having sex with someone else. I think the dumpee feels far more pain than the dumper though. The dumper, especially if a Woman, has moved on weeks before they finally do the deed and by then most lined up your replacement and will move on without a second thought.

Think that's how my last one went...

 

[Mackenzie]

Got any pics you want to share now that you've binned her?

 

[BurgessHillSeagullsTake2]

Do you not have any real friends you could talk to about this rather than whining on here for attention?

 

[NickBHAFC18]

Got any pics you want to share now that you've binned her?

Totally this.

 

[TerryT]

My advice is to open up another account asap.

 

[Cheeky Monkey]

Harsh.

OP, have you thought about writing some poetry? Can really help with expressing your feelings and I think that NSC would be the ideal place to first publish it. We're all sensitive souls here.

 

[Cheeky Monkey]

My advice is to open up another account asap.

Fantastic

 

[Sam Ovett]

Sam!! Thanks for making me smile!!

You're welcome

 

[SK1NT]

Harsh.

OP, have you thought about writing some poetry? Can really help with expressing your feelings and I think that NSC would be the ideal place to first publish it. We're all sensitive souls here.

You were the love of my life,
And i wanted you to be my wife,

However i had to end it and spread my seed,
By giving pleasure to girls in need.

At uni it is best to be single,
So this is the time i shall mingle.

 

[Gullys Cats]

One word ...time.

 

[Kuipers Supporters Club]

This was never meant as a oh, look at me thread as suggested , I just know NSC has some decent people on here, i'm going to meet up with her tonight and talk about things. I've made a massive mistake.

This means there will be no pictures.

 

[Return of the Rev]

This was never meant as a oh, look at me thread as suggested , I just know NSC has some decent people on here, i'm going to meet up with her tonight and talk about things. I've made a massive mistake.

This means there will be no pictures.

Make sure you get a lock of hair in case it goes tits up!(for the shrine)

 

[SK1NT]

This was never meant as a oh, look at me thread as suggested , I just know NSC has some decent people on here, i'm going to meet up with her tonight and talk about things. I've made a massive mistake.

This means there will be no pictures.

try not to look at her whilst thinking of her taking a dump...

 

[Kuipers Supporters Club]

try not to look at her whilst thinking of her taking a dump...

I'll keep that in mind, thank you by the way for making me realise what an Idiot I was being.

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

This was never meant as a oh, look at me thread as suggested , I just know NSC has some decent people on here, i'm going to meet up with her tonight and talk about things. I've made a massive mistake.

This means there will be no pictures.

Let's hope you have not f***ed it up. Women do not like being discarded. Their mindset can change quickly and when it does there is sod all you can do to get her to feel the same way again. Good luck.

 

[Cheshire Cat]

Getting smashed with the lads, not doing any work and trying to shag anything you can get your hands on.

So nothing's changed then.