As a cricket watcher, exactly the same there. It took them years to work out you needed to play the audio in the ground, mind, but when they did they’ve never looked back.I watch a lot of rugby and the difference to football is night and day.
in rugby the referee remains in charge. He's advised by the video ref but his decision is final and he will often disagree with the video ref. Replays are freely played on the big screen in the stadium for everyone to see, including the ref. Everyone can hear what's being said. You might not agree with the decision but you can hear the reasoning behind it.
In football none of this applies.
I often wondered why they don't play the audio of the VAR officials for everyone to hear. What have they got to hide. Let's hear the professionals in action. Well, now we know why.
Listening to that audio was a real ear opener.
Unfortunately football is too arrogant to take lessons from such “lesser” sports.