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Teacher from Ringmer.... 15 year old pupil - LOST & FOUND



BRIGHT ON Q

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Jul 5, 2003
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MaIn headline 2 nights running on the national news,joke.
 








Puppet Master

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Aug 14, 2012
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What's the world come to where a bloke can't take his bird on holiday without the media going all scatty about it :shrug:
 


Pinkie Brown

Wir Sind das Volk
Sep 5, 2007
3,637
Neues Zeitalter DDR 🇩🇪
The reputation of that School is fast going down the pan.....

BBC News - Megan Stammers: Bishop Bell School under fire over record

"In 2009, a teacher from the school was jailed for grooming pupils and in March it emerged a retired priest had been allowed to remain as a governor despite child sex allegations against him."

"The school has defended its record"
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"The School defended its record"? :ohmy: They don't say how. They're probably still thinking of an answer?
 




Billy the Fish

Technocrat
Oct 18, 2005
17,594
Haywards Heath
The thing is that in 5 years time, when she is 20, she'll be an adult with an independent mind and wouldn't look at him twice, and he probably realises this. Right now - although she is physically mature - she is still a vulnerable kid, and he has pretty much total control over her. She probably idolises him because of his position of power and maturity, and I'm going to have a guess that she may have some father-daughter relationship issues at home that her teacher/boyfriend makes up for.

That's what everyone wants to believe, that he is in some way predatory and controlling her every move. It might be the case, but it might just as easily not be.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to argue the case for him. As a 30 year old I see girls drinking in the pub and think they're too young. I just like to keep an open mind when we don't know all the facts or the individuals involved.
 




Elvis

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Mar 22, 2010
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I'm in no way trying to put light of what is a very serious issue, but, they were seen holding hands on a flight back from a school trip to Los Angeles!!!

LA! When I was at school we were lucky to get a school trip to Lewes Castle.
 




smudge

Up the Albion!
Jul 8, 2003
7,376
On the ocean wave
I'm in no way trying to put light of what is a very serious issue, but, they were seen holding hands on a flight back from a school trip to Los Angeles!!!

LA! When I was at school we were lucky to get a school trip to Lewes Castle.

I went to Lewes Priory; we had a day trip to Brighton Sewers. You wouldn't want to hold hands with anyone down there!
 




Pinkie Brown

Wir Sind das Volk
Sep 5, 2007
3,637
Neues Zeitalter DDR 🇩🇪
I'm in no way trying to put light of what is a very serious issue, but, they were seen holding hands on a flight back from a school trip to Los Angeles!!!

LA! When I was at school we were lucky to get a school trip to Lewes Castle.

So true. My daughter went to New York & Spain when she was at High School as well as lots of daytrips all over the place. Me? A daytrip to the Science Museum & Pevensey Castle was about the extent of it.
 




SirDouglasLoft

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Jul 4, 2008
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I left Bishop Bell in 2008 and in my last year a teacher got sent to prison for sleeping with girls in my year. Didn't hear the stuff about the priest until the last few days.

Oh and for the people on this thread that went to Bishop Bell, Mr McAlone was still there in '08 and is still a pillock
 




s5.bha

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Aug 3, 2003
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Teacher from Ringmer.... Megan Stammers

I was discussing this with my 14 year old daughter early and she asked what I would do if she ran away with one of her teachers...........my reply was , " well you wouldnt get very far as your passport ran out 6 months ago !!!
 




Goldstone Rapper

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Jan 19, 2009
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Teacher from Ringmer.... Megan Stammers

I was discussing this with my 14 year old daughter early and she asked what I would do if she ran away with one of her teachers...........my reply was , " well you wouldnt get very far as your passport ran out 6 months ago !!!

Did she say which teacher she would run off with if she had the choice?
 


s5.bha

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Aug 3, 2003
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Teacher from Ringmer.... Megan Stammers

Did she say which teacher she would run off with if she had the choice?

No she said " but we're going on holiday in 3 weeks ! " that's when I had to break the news to her that me and mum were actually going on holiday , but if she could look upon staying at Granny's as a holiday , fair play to her !
 


Pavilionaire

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Jul 7, 2003
31,265
Well this is a football message board and I fancy Forrest might be going down.
 


Acker79

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Nov 15, 2008
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Well this is a football message board and I fancy Forrest might be going down.

But, Nottingham Forest have made a decent start to the season, currently sitting in eleventh with draws v play off favourites such as birmingham and bolton (who perhaps are contenders for automatic promotion) as well as currently second placed huddersfield - the team that beat Blackpool 3-1! I don't think they would be in any danger of relegation. Why would you even sug- aaah! Oh you!
 




Lady Whistledown

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Jul 7, 2003
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Teacher from Ringmer.... Megan Stammers

That's what everyone wants to believe, that he is in some way predatory and controlling her every move. It might be the case, but it might just as easily not be.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to argue the case for him. As a 30 year old I see girls drinking in the pub and think they're too young. I just like to keep an open mind when we don't know all the facts or the individuals involved.

The age thing isn't the major factor here though: it's the fact that he's her teacher, therefore is breaking the law by forming a relationship with her.

If he was just some other random 30yr old dating a 15yr old, the chances are her parents would be pissed but as long as it was consensual on her part, he wouldn't be in too much strife. This is all because he is in a position of responsibility for her, which makes it highly illegal.
 


BensGrandad

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Jul 13, 2003
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Haywards Heath
The age thing isn't the major factor here though: it's the fact that he's her teacher, therefore is breaking the law by forming a relationship with her.

If he was just some other random 30yr old dating a 15yr old, the chances are her parents would be pissed but as long as it was consensual on her part, he wouldn't be in too much strife. This is all because he is in a position of responsibility for her, which makes it highly illegal.

Can a 15 year old girl give her consent if he wasnt her teacher?
 


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