Johners
Member
I think the real answer, as with many such medical procedures, is that there is no hard and fast yes or no answer, and that each case should be looked at on it's own merits.
Without going into the gory, and personal, details, my wife fell pregnant twice and each time suffered complications requiring surgery meaning that natural conception was impossible without assistance to get the sperm to the womb.
We have therefore had to undergo cycles of IVF, one of which was funded by the NHS, one of which we have funded - and I will say that the quoted £2,500 is nowhere near the final figure, as I'm sure Diffbrook would confirm, not by the time you take into account the various drugs, scans etc.
With the NHS cycle, there are very strict criteria laid down by the individual NHS Trusts which HAVE to be met, as they have only a limited amount of resources available to them for IVF treatments and do not want to use them on all and sundry.
I would add as well, that IVF is not only a tool for those who could never conceive naturally, I know personally of some cases where the couples first born child has been with the help of IVF, but subsequent children have then been conceived and born naturally, almost as if the body needed to be shown what was required before it realised what it was to do.
What I would like to finish by saying is that I don't think anyone can totally say what their views are on such subjects UNTIL such time as they themselves have had to be in the position of having to make such a decision.
Without going into the gory, and personal, details, my wife fell pregnant twice and each time suffered complications requiring surgery meaning that natural conception was impossible without assistance to get the sperm to the womb.
We have therefore had to undergo cycles of IVF, one of which was funded by the NHS, one of which we have funded - and I will say that the quoted £2,500 is nowhere near the final figure, as I'm sure Diffbrook would confirm, not by the time you take into account the various drugs, scans etc.
With the NHS cycle, there are very strict criteria laid down by the individual NHS Trusts which HAVE to be met, as they have only a limited amount of resources available to them for IVF treatments and do not want to use them on all and sundry.
I would add as well, that IVF is not only a tool for those who could never conceive naturally, I know personally of some cases where the couples first born child has been with the help of IVF, but subsequent children have then been conceived and born naturally, almost as if the body needed to be shown what was required before it realised what it was to do.
What I would like to finish by saying is that I don't think anyone can totally say what their views are on such subjects UNTIL such time as they themselves have had to be in the position of having to make such a decision.