bomber130
bomber130
- Jun 10, 2011
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Very likely. It's the posting bit that's tasteless though isn't it.
Can't disagree with that
Very likely. It's the posting bit that's tasteless though isn't it.
Come on Wozza. Syria? CAR? MH370? There are plenty more events causing more pain and suffering. I'm not saying Geldof's death isn't sad but put it in perspective.
Come on Wozza. Syria? CAR? MH370? There are plenty more events causing more pain and suffering. I'm not saying Geldof's death isn't sad but put it in perspective.
These events are causing pain and suffering to a greater number of people, but they are absolutely not causing MORE pain to the individuals involved.
I find these public outpourings of grief quite fascinating. I think their is an element of attention seeking to it all along with an element of people almost practicing how they would feel if one of their loved ones died. You only have to see how quickly people say "I have a daughter/son/sister/terrapin and god alone knows what I would do if they died like this". I dunno? Go on NSC?
My point wasn't about the individuals involved, it was the countless people on Facebook who it has no bearing on yet feel the need to jump on the bandwagon of suddenly caring. If this really causes genuine sadness they must have quite a narrow view of the world.
Perhaps it's because we hear of tragedy every day, and often on a much larger scale, that we become desensitized to it.There needs to be only compassion.
My point wasn't about the individuals involved, it was the countless people on Facebook who it has no bearing on yet feel the need to jump on the bandwagon of suddenly caring. If this really causes genuine sadness they must have quite a narrow view of the world.
This Be The Verse
BY PHILIP LARKIN
They f uck you up, your mum and dad.
They may not mean to, but they do.
They fill you with the faults they had
And add some extra, just for you.
But they were f ucked up in their turn
By fools in old-style hats and coats,
Who half the time were soppy-stern
And half at one another’s throats.
Man hands on misery to man.
It deepens like a coastal shelf.
Get out as early as you can,
And don’t have any kids yourself.
Philip Larkin, “This Be the Verse” from Collected Poems. Used by permission of The Society of Authors as the Literary Representative of the Estate of Philip Larkin.
Source: Collected Poems (Farrar Straus and Giroux, 2001)
I find these public outpourings of grief quite fascinating. I think their is an element of attention seeking to it all along with an element of people almost practicing how they would feel if one of their loved ones died. You only have to see how quickly people say "I have a daughter/son/sister/terrapin and god alone knows what I would do if they died like this". I dunno? Go on NSC?
Very sad that so many see truth in this.
Er, isn't that what you did when your mother died?
I think the point Nibble was making was regards to people grieving over someone they don't personally know as a way of seeking attention and/or making a reference how they might feel if a family member of theirs was to die in a similar way.
So, no, I don't think he did.
A strange point of view. " It does not personally affect me, so I don't give a f*ck " It is just a basic compassion and empathy.
But why make a public display of compassion and empathy for one person you don't know rather than the 1000's of others who die each day?
He posted on NSC that his mother died. People gave nibble the sympathy and empathy he was in need of.
Now someone else dies and nibble thinks it a load of attention seeking emotional porn.
I guess some people count themselves as more important?