Thankfully we have a choice on the matter. I'll be avoiding it though.
If you think that, then have a read of this:
http://www.mirror.co.uk/sport/football/nelson-mandela-dead-football-shouldnt-2010650
Whether you like it or not, football is a part of the world we live in.
What a jumble! You can't make up your mind whether people 'like that sort of thing' or whether it's 'undemocratic' and there is 'moral pressure on people to go along with it.'
You also seem unsure whether the 'only reflection on show at times like this is people wondering how they look' or whether the effect of it really is 'religious'.
Make up your mind!
Whether you like it or not, football is a part of the world we live in.
Same as.....no thanks, not for me this one.....
you are trying too hard. nothing in there is contradictory.
I am pretty much out of this as well, are we to do this every time and ex USA President dies ?
Not in the same ballpark.
So is shopping at Tesco, but they didn't have a minutes applause in there this morning.
I'll be applauding. Happy to pay a little respect for a moment for someone i deem worthy of it. It doesn't matter if i am somewhere supposedly to shout hateful chants at people for a couple of hours. I am not sure where i should be to feel that bowing my head in honour of a legend for a minute fits in, so today's match seems ok enough of a place to host it.
but everyman is equal right?
yeah its a religious ceremony. people like that sort of thing religions quite popular. you go to a football match though and there is massive pressure on you to conform and join in a spectacle that wasnt what you went there for, based on the prevailing view. to me its nonsense and very undemocratic and sinister. people exerting moral pressure on people to go along with what is in reality a lot of showing off. the only reflection on show at times like this is people wondering how they look. dont like it one little bit.
This is how I feel too. Pressure from society. In my mind I've yet to stand for a minutes silence for 'Our brave boys' for instance - for me personally it's always just a silence I'm happy to observe for all the innocent victims of war the world over. I'd rather Rememberance Sunday silences didn't take place at football matches at all - those wanting to show their respects should go to their local ceremony instead.
Had I been at today's match I would not have felt particularly comfortable. Mandela was a truly remarkable human being in my eyes, and politically I'm on his side, but that's my business, not something I should feel compelled to express in public because of a misplaced minutes applause at a sporting event.