LamieRobertson
Not awoke
Even if I did believe you , which I do not, you'll normally find its the younger generation that get wound up over these matters, the older generation tend to shrug their shoulders and carry on. If what happens to your Mother's rhubarb leaves vexes you so terribly, take them to the tip for her, or alternatively get her to hide the leaves deeper in the bin bag.
You are missing the point Nibble...questions should be asked why she was throwing away rhubarb leaves..very wasteful ...could have made a nice rhubarb crumble out of them!!!!