I'm shit with money

[ben andrews' girlfriend]

Laura , you put it from a girly point of view.

Well, yeah. But that's cause girls are better than boys!!!!

I like lists I do!

 

[seagullsovergrimsby]

Well, yeah. But that's cause girls are better than boys!!!!

I like lists I do!

If you read this Adrie , the girl is right - make a list of things to do and then it will be a sense of achievement when you get things done.

 

[magoo]

have you noticed how he starts these threads off then buggers off!

 

[hart's shirt]

Some excellent advice already given on the thread.

If you want to start feeling better, try to do something good to someone in the world every day - ideally someone who can do absolutely nothing for you in return.

That way, you'll start to focus on other people needs rather than your own - and your feelings of inadequacy and failure will shrink as a result of you playing an increasingly helpful role in the lives of others.

 

[Bry Nylon]

no-one wants someone who is self depricating.

I like self-depricating jokes, but I always get them wrong

 

[Bluejuice]

If you want to start feeling better, try to do something good to someone in the world every day - ideally someone who can do absolutely nothing for you in return.

Might I suggest you give up posting on here, and do a good deed for thousands of people all at once. Easy

Alcohol is very good for depression. Get out and get drinking. Don't come back under your own steam

 

[ben andrews' girlfriend]

I like self-depricating jokes, but I always get them wrong

Awwww, how sweet

 

[Braders]

Simple Ways to change your life:

1) Weekly budgets will sort out your money.
2) Wash 2 times a day, invest in a good anti-perspirant
3) Turn your computer off, and get a hobby. You are at university - there are HUNDREDS of things to do, and the more clubs you join, the more people you'll meet
4) Start some excercise, even if you dont have the money to buy a bike / gym membership. You have legs, use them!
5) Getting a job is by no means difficult. Go to your local / SU bar / shops. Build a decent CV which points out your strengths - if you need help with that, I can always help.
6) Girls will come when you are happy with you. Get yourself sorted before even thinking about dating, because no-one wants someone who is self depricating.

yup spot on

( except (2) i don't know ANYONE who does (2) at uni , and i'm abit uncertain about (6) but that could be down to not doing (2) )

 

[Dr Q]

Another thing, if possible, assuming you can do it correctly.
Or failing that, bear this in mind, for when you are up and running & looking forward.

Get a dog (of the canine variety).

That way you have to go out, at least twice a day, everyday, whatever the weather, you both will feel so much better, and most people will stop and talk to you, or your dog.

Get a dog! Christ this kid can't look after his sorry self, let alone another animal.
Best bit of advice has been given already. Turn the F***in computer off and get out and enjoy yerself. University is supposed to be one of the best times of your life (it was for me). Sitting behind a computer carping on about your own problems, whilst worrying about how many psuedo friend you have on facebook and the like and p*ssing your student loan on online poker aint gonna get you anything in life! Get a grip!

 

[John Bumlick]

6) Girls will come

he's got to get one to talk to him first. let's not run before we can walk, eh?

 

[smudge]

Watch some Frankie & have a tug.

 

[El Presidente]

I am determined to start a new leaf. 2008 is going to be the penultimate year.

I've had a gambling problem.

Does this mean that Adrie has just bet on himself to still be alive in 2010?

 

[TWOCHOICEStom]

Read everything on here, take it into account and get a job somewhere.. anywhere. When I worked at Sainsbury's I met more people than you could imagine. You should get fit, stop gambling. And score some crack.

If that doesnt work, just listen to my band here... then you'll top yourself!

Chin up fella!

 

[Stat Brother]

Get a dog! Christ this kid can't look after his sorry self, let alone another animal.
Best bit of advice has been given already. Turn the F***in computer off and get out and enjoy yerself. University is supposed to be one of the best times of your life (it was for me). Sitting behind a computer carping on about your own problems, whilst worrying about how many psuedo friend you have on facebook and the like and p*ssing your student loan on online poker aint gonna get you anything in life! Get a grip!

Once again fucknut, I refer you to my further explaination.

Hence me saying:-
"Or failing that, bear this in mind, for when you are up and running & looking forward".

There's no reason why he couldn't take a dog out, from a nearby dogs home, on a walk.

The principle is the same, it gets you out & people WILL talk to you, increasing self asteem and social skills, without the 'pressure' of a pub/club enviroment.

 

[El Presidente]

Well, yeah. But that's cause girls are better than boys!!!!

Especially at blowjobs

 

[Cian]

Especially at blowjobs

Speaking from experience of both sides El Pres? I'm shocked

 

[ben andrews' girlfriend]

Especially at blowjobs

Exactly!

 

[Evil Edna]

have you noticed how he starts these threads off then buggers off!

Probably followed this advice

Simple Ways to change your life:


3) Turn your computer off, and get a hobby. You are at university - there are HUNDREDS of things to do, and the more clubs you join, the more people you'll meet

 

[Shizuoka Dolphin]

Reading NSC never fails to make me feel better about myself.

 

[Drumstick]

Chins.