Between £1000 and £100000
A lot until the divorce, when, in a fit of insanity/depression, I gave it all away.
Each month, I have a spreadsheet showing our incomings i.e what I and the Mrs earn, plus child benefit. On the other side is all our outgoings, Gas/Electric, water, petrol, our direct debits etc. I also set out what as a family we will spend on going out that month. Anything left is over is savings and goes in a ISA.
Its a bit micro management, but it has meant that as a family we never have had outstanding credit cards, with good savings.
I don't know how people manage their money unless there is some kind of structure.
About £8.60, but Initiative Q may well change that.
Possibly the best thing I ever did money-wise, quite early on, was to setup a separate bank account that I moved cash into every month on pay day for all the things that were either annual bills or to cover things that could happen from time to time. The amount I saved was equal to what each of those things cost a year divided by 12. So, for example (and some of these numbers are just there for illustration)...
- Car Insurance - £30
- Car Tax - £20
- MOT and car maintenance - £30
- TV Licence - £10
- Christmas (presents and general increased expenditure) - £50
- Other stuff going wrong - £50
etc etc
Now, I fully appreciate that if things are tight, it may be easier said than done to get this up and running, but it meant that I was constantly saving for things that I'd need to pay for, but I wouldn't have one of those "I could really do without the car needing new tyres as the washing machine needs repairing too" months.
I'd keep track of each individual "pot" within the account, and I'd often find that one pot may go negative but that would be offset by other pots being positive. At the end of each calendar year, I'd asses whether I was saving enough or too much for each individual thing, and adjust if required.
It really made a difference when it came to money stresses, at a time when I didn't have much spare money.
Agreed. 100%
I was EXTREMELY fortunate to have got a helping loan from both sets of parents when we bought 6 years ago(now both repaid). I have NO idea how I would have done it without them.
And (without sounding old) I now look at the 20 somethings and really feel for them. I needed £18k for my deposit....someone would now need £28k for the same property. How is the feasibly possible without help?
I went to Uni, got the SCARE of my life when I racked up debt after debt and occurred overdraft fees constantly and lived on about £20 a week for everything. It was horrible.
Now, I've gone completely the other way. I have my next 6 months forcasted on a spreadsheet, I check my bank account every day, update the spreadsheet, tick off when DD's have been paid, adjust my spending money accordingly etc etc. Sure, I've gone further than others would but it's great to know I'm aware of my situation at all times and it makes me more annoyed we weren't taught things like this at school but were taught how to make a coleslaw.
I'm now paying off a combination of wedding, honeymoon, new baby costs + the downside my wifes decreased income so currently I'm on a debt repayment mission of my two 0% credit cards.
Without intentionally sounding like an arse..... The maximum one is allowed to hold in premium bonds is £50k.
We have a "bills" account. Alongside our joint account. We know what all our bills are.
Rent
Council tax
Gas
Electric
Water
Broadband
BT tv
Mobile phone x2
Car tax x2
Petrol
Diesel
Car insurance x2
Her car H.P.
My ST
Tv license
Her contact lenses
Her glasses
Childcare
And the rest I can't remember
We both put in enough to cover everything. We even over pay on gas and electric to cover the winter months.
Depending on whether I've done 40 or 50 hours overtime in the month we can afford for me to do an occasional away day.
After we've put that aside we have maybe 400 disposable. And out of that comes food.
Aldi is our saviour so we can feed ourselves and stock the freezer for 150 a month but still need perishables such as milk, butter, fruit etc.
That gives us about 250 to spend. Not a lot with a 4 year old that needs entertaining every weekend.
We live to our last £10 in the bank and that regularly has to last us 3-4 days.
We've got nearly 4k on credit cards after our last few emergencies but managing to pay off the minimum amounts and balance transferring every year to keep at 0%.
I've read the whole of this thread before replying to this and sat here in tears where ive gone wrong in my life and I could seriously slit my ****ing wrists right now.
I turned 40 last month. I still don't own my own home. The truth is now hitting home that I never will. And it kills me. I have a wonderful 4 year old little girl right now cuddled up next to me on the sofa asleep. And right now i am haven't got a stable home for her.
Last year we had to do the whole school application thing. And got our preferred choice 250 yards down the road. Then in january our landlord told us he was selling the flat we were in so had to move out. It turned our world upside down. We had a private landlord so only paid 800 for a deposit. We've had to find somewhere else to live using an agency and had to find a months rent in advance + 6 weeks deposit + over 400 in fees.
We lived there for 4 years and paid nearly 50k off his mortgage for him. Then had to leave. We're now 8 months into this new place. And will pay over 12k off this blokes mortgage.
I should be paying my own but I can't get any capital for a deposit.
There's that wonderful "help to buy isa" so if you put 200 a month in the govt puts in 50.
Average house price round here is 300k for a shite 2 bed bungalow. So even if I could save 200 a month I will have a deposit in 10 years. If house prices are frozen until then. But I'll be 50 years old and unable to get a mortgage. I don't have any inheritance coming my way either to help out. I'm hoping on an on going PPI claim to hopefully clear the credit cards.
I work 12 hours a day to earn overtime and currently do between 40-60 hours a month over to give us a bit of cash.
Life is ****ing great isn't it?
This post may come across a bit bitter and jealous. But to be quite frank I am. I'd give anything to have the security in my life that some of you have.
You’re actually living like so many people I know through family, friends and work. Possibly a third to a half of families. People flog their cars altogether when they breakdown, topup their bank current account with drawn credit card cash to prevent going overdrawn, payday loans, etc.
The NSC anecdotes here are a very unrepresentative sample of people in their 40’s, 50’s and 60’s, who perhaps run businesses, have senior positions in the latter stages of a career or are retired. Also, some have mentioned coming into money through parents passing away; this normally happens where the recipients aren’t young themselves.
In Brighton and Sussex, your financial predicament is common place.
I can think of a few long term political solutions .... which aren’t marxist!
We have a "bills" account. Alongside our joint account. We know what all our bills are.
Rent
Council tax
Gas
Electric
Water
Broadband
BT tv
Mobile phone x2
Car tax x2
Petrol
Diesel
Car insurance x2
Her car H.P.
My ST
Tv license
Her contact lenses
Her glasses
Childcare
And the rest I can't remember
We both put in enough to cover everything. We even over pay on gas and electric to cover the winter months.
Depending on whether I've done 40 or 50 hours overtime in the month we can afford for me to do an occasional away day.
After we've put that aside we have maybe 400 disposable. And out of that comes food.
Aldi is our saviour so we can feed ourselves and stock the freezer for 150 a month but still need perishables such as milk, butter, fruit etc.
That gives us about 250 to spend. Not a lot with a 4 year old that needs entertaining every weekend.
We live to our last £10 in the bank and that regularly has to last us 3-4 days.
We've got nearly 4k on credit cards after our last few emergencies but managing to pay off the minimum amounts and balance transferring every year to keep at 0%.
I've read the whole of this thread before replying to this and sat here in tears where ive gone wrong in my life and I could seriously slit my ****ing wrists right now.
I turned 40 last month. I still don't own my own home. The truth is now hitting home that I never will. And it kills me. I have a wonderful 4 year old little girl right now cuddled up next to me on the sofa asleep. And right now i am haven't got a stable home for her.
Last year we had to do the whole school application thing. And got our preferred choice 250 yards down the road. Then in january our landlord told us he was selling the flat we were in so had to move out. It turned our world upside down. We had a private landlord so only paid 800 for a deposit. We've had to find somewhere else to live using an agency and had to find a months rent in advance + 6 weeks deposit + over 400 in fees.
We lived there for 4 years and paid nearly 50k off his mortgage for him. Then had to leave. We're now 8 months into this new place. And will pay over 12k off this blokes mortgage.
I should be paying my own but I can't get any capital for a deposit.
There's that wonderful "help to buy isa" so if you put 200 a month in the govt puts in 50.
Average house price round here is 300k for a shite 2 bed bungalow. So even if I could save 200 a month I will have a deposit in 10 years. If house prices are frozen until then. But I'll be 50 years old and unable to get a mortgage. I don't have any inheritance coming my way either to help out. I'm hoping on an on going PPI claim to hopefully clear the credit cards.
I work 12 hours a day to earn overtime and currently do between 40-60 hours a month over to give us a bit of cash.
Life is ****ing great isn't it?
This post may come across a bit bitter and jealous. But to be quite frank I am. I'd give anything to have the security in my life that some of you have.
Spot on. Not sure what the solution is but it’s desperate that so many hardworking people with families are struggling
We have a "bills" account. Alongside our joint account. We know what all our bills are.
Rent
Council tax
Gas
Electric
Water
Broadband
BT tv
Mobile phone x2
Car tax x2
Petrol
Diesel
Car insurance x2
Her car H.P.
My ST
Tv license
Her contact lenses
Her glasses
Childcare
And the rest I can't remember
We both put in enough to cover everything. We even over pay on gas and electric to cover the winter months.
Depending on whether I've done 40 or 50 hours overtime in the month we can afford for me to do an occasional away day.
After we've put that aside we have maybe 400 disposable. And out of that comes food.
Aldi is our saviour so we can feed ourselves and stock the freezer for 150 a month but still need perishables such as milk, butter, fruit etc.
That gives us about 250 to spend. Not a lot with a 4 year old that needs entertaining every weekend.
We live to our last £10 in the bank and that regularly has to last us 3-4 days.
We've got nearly 4k on credit cards after our last few emergencies but managing to pay off the minimum amounts and balance transferring every year to keep at 0%.
I've read the whole of this thread before replying to this and sat here in tears where ive gone wrong in my life and I could seriously slit my ****ing wrists right now.
I turned 40 last month. I still don't own my own home. The truth is now hitting home that I never will. And it kills me. I have a wonderful 4 year old little girl right now cuddled up next to me on the sofa asleep. And right now i am haven't got a stable home for her.
Last year we had to do the whole school application thing. And got our preferred choice 250 yards down the road. Then in january our landlord told us he was selling the flat we were in so had to move out. It turned our world upside down. We had a private landlord so only paid 800 for a deposit. We've had to find somewhere else to live using an agency and had to find a months rent in advance + 6 weeks deposit + over 400 in fees.
We lived there for 4 years and paid nearly 50k off his mortgage for him. Then had to leave. We're now 8 months into this new place. And will pay over 12k off this blokes mortgage.
I should be paying my own but I can't get any capital for a deposit.
There's that wonderful "help to buy isa" so if you put 200 a month in the govt puts in 50.
Average house price round here is 300k for a shite 2 bed bungalow. So even if I could save 200 a month I will have a deposit in 10 years. If house prices are frozen until then. But I'll be 50 years old and unable to get a mortgage. I don't have any inheritance coming my way either to help out. I'm hoping on an on going PPI claim to hopefully clear the credit cards.
I work 12 hours a day to earn overtime and currently do between 40-60 hours a month over to give us a bit of cash.
Life is ****ing great isn't it?
This post may come across a bit bitter and jealous. But to be quite frank I am. I'd give anything to have the security in my life that some of you have.