The empathic decision is to tell his coaching team to stay at Brighton instead of securing the futures of their families through following him to Chelsea?Still like the guy, but it’s hard to hear his strength is empathy, when he effectively gutted the club of its coaching team for his own personal ambitions.
Emapathy is telling Bruno "nah, it would look bad if I took you with me. Stick around and pray that the next manager want you rather than some random Umberto Corleone as his coach"?
When Ben and Bruno go and secure the future of their families, it is likely a once in a lifetime opportunity. If you can give it to them, give it to them - that is the fair thing to do.
When Brighton lose two coaches there's a gazillion others to step in and do the job. It is a VERY small problem.
He caused Brighton a very minor issue in exchange for securing the financial future of six or seven families. Its a choice any normal human would do.