I'll tell you where I am:
I'm on the fence!
Accidents do happen, and if you carelessly set fire to yourself, then it's you that's careless and not the fault of the establishment. But, the hotel is responsible to make sure this wouldn't happen just by sitting in a chair - the candles shouldn't be that close to you. So who was careless, the OP or the hotel? We can't be sure from the above, but it does sound like the hotel made this an accident waiting to happen.
I'm on the fence!
Accidents do happen, and if you carelessly set fire to yourself, then it's you that's careless and not the fault of the establishment. But, the hotel is responsible to make sure this wouldn't happen just by sitting in a chair - the candles shouldn't be that close to you. So who was careless, the OP or the hotel? We can't be sure from the above, but it does sound like the hotel made this an accident waiting to happen.