It's no good complaining about too much criticism of the NT when your own post is a little bit "revisionist" itself.
2002 - England were playing against a 10 man Brazil for around 40 minutes, never looked like equalising and were deservedly beaten. 2010 - the ghost goal masks the obvious that the Germans were certainly worth their three goal win. As for 2014, two defeats (one to a team you just castigated) and a draw with Costa Rica. This is merely "disappointing"?
Let's not even mention the Euros.
However, it is what it is and in the last few years England have not had sufficiently creative midfield players. Even when they did. our famous lack of tactical match awareness has been apparent. The last time England beat a major nation in a competitive fixture was 2002 (The Argies went out in the group stage that time as they couldn't beat Sweden either)
England should always expect to do their duty and reach the quarter finals, but that's as far as it goes because with the current lot, despite their good fortune to have massively high profiles, aren't as good man-for-man as the other top nations. That's not the fault of the players, they can't help not being good enough.
Near 30 than 40 minutes when Ronaldihno went off and they were already ahead by then. Disagree about Germany. Had the equalizer counted it would have meant England were on the up and a young German team pegged back just before halftime. We had to chase the game and they got two more breakaway goals. England had other chances and so did the Germans. Fact is we were beaten by the team that eventually finished third which met the criteria that another poster suggested.
What I do agree with is that we don't have the creativity in midfield but as you say, that's not the fault of the players. However, with the results of the junior England team over the last 18 months then it does seem clear that things are moving in the right direction.
Surely, irrespective of the above, you either want your national team to do well or people are just willing them to fail to justify their own negativity. You get the same at Brighton although, thankfully, seemingly not in such significant numbers.