Chemical reaction to relationship break up?

[pishhead]

Have any of her mates got big tits?
If so theres your answer.
Keep your chin up.

 

[Les Biehn]

Sounds like you need to MAN THE f*** UP.

Not wrong. The trouble is I am working 7-7 and can't get f***ed. Friday night can't come fast enough.

 

[Les Biehn]

Have any of her mates got big tits?
If so theres your answer.
Keep your chin up.

She lives 250 miles away.

 

[fatfingers]

it f***ing well hard to move on specialy when you have to see her quite frequently , the ex and i lost twins in feb and i will always have some contact with her because of that, how do women seem to cope so well , as if you never mattered to them

 

[Meade's Ball]

I think what needs to happen is for you to end your mystery. After a brief period it's becomes a somewhat embarassing investigation. Asking yourself unanswerable questions that online imagery may carry a suggestive page toward the 'truth' doesn't seem all that helpful.
Just have to find a way to pronounce your filth with paper or screen, maybe, and for the query to die.

 

[Buzzer]

TIME.

I'm afraid that's the only cure. Split up from my wife last year and subsequently found out she was having an affair. Hurt me like I've never known pain before.


Good luck mate and hope you get through this okay.

 

[Les Biehn]

It's an odd one isn't it. Still this weekend I intend to get shitfaced beyond all recognition.

 

[Simon Morgan]

Its obviously very tricky and I would hate to experience this. But from what you post on here, you seem a witty, nice guy and I'm sure you've got lots of friends who will help you through it. As you said, the first stage of this will be Friday night

 

[Barnet Seagull]

Stop being such a jessie.

 

[Dick Knights Mumm]

I agree with Barntit.

You need a friend to tell you to Pull Yourself Together.

There are other plenty of good women around. It is her loss.

What a Fool Believes.

 

[Les Biehn]

Its obviously very tricky and I would hate to experience this. But from what you post on here, you seem a witty, nice guy and I'm sure you've got lots of friends who will help you through it. As you said, the first stage of this will be Friday night

Some would say witty, others pissed up offensive dick head. Still, I will just have to see what happens. Cheers for all the kind words and Fat fingers I hope things sort themselves out dude.

I know things will get better, just sucks at the moment.

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

I almost split up a few months back Les and i turned to shit. I was about as useful as a paper bag in a storm. I recommend strong liquer and the company of your mates.

 

[Les Biehn]

I almost split up a few months back Les and i turned to shit. I was about as useful as a paper bag in a storm. I recommend strong liquer and the company of your mates.

Work is a killer as I am training the new girl who is Italian (got a bf and not my type at all) and I can't exactly talk to her about it! Also have to get up at 5.30 which is making me knackered, which doesn't help. Its weird how you kind of turn to shit but you know it will ok eventually.

 

[Les Biehn]

I agree with Barntit.

You need a friend to tell you to Pull Yourself Together.

There are other plenty of good women around. It is her loss.

What a Fool Believes.

Never fear, I have stuff planned for all weekend and have started a stiff exercise regime. Strange how them endorphines make you feel better.

 

[tedebear]

There are definite stages to these things... don't spose everyone goes through them all, or in the same order but...

a. Absolute misery, thinking of ex every available moment, enter their name in google 50 times a day, and search for their number on mobile but never press call about 5 times a day, usually after dinner and when drunk...

b. Anger, why the f*** did they do that to me, not good for me anyhow, who gives a toss anyhow...going to go and get shit faced... (and try not to call her)

c. Why the f*** did I get shitfaced, I'm in hungover to hell and I hurt all over and see stage a. again..

d. Oh my god I haven't thought about her for the whole day

e. Oh my god a whole week

f. Oh sh*t she's called what the f*** do I say now...

g. ad infinitum...

Its hell, but it sure makes you realise you're alive.

 

[Scotty Mac]

Work is a killer as I am training the new girl who is Italian (got a bf and not my type at all) and I can't exactly talk to her about it! Also have to get up at 5.30 which is making me knackered, which doesn't help. Its weird how you kind of turn to shit but you know it will ok eventually.

are you still cycling to work?!

 

[Les Biehn]

are you still cycling to work?!

f*** that shit. Getting off at Burgess and jogging home from there then doing an hour of weights. It weird the whole time I do it I feel much better.

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

I seperated from my wife 2 years ago after 13 years , some nights over the next year I did not know if I would make it, and I found 3-4am in the morning hell, i always woke up and felt like shit, I was barely functioning and drink can help but does not solve the long term problem. I have now met someone else who is lovely but completely different, I still think of the ex every day and miss her and i guess always will and remember our good times together and have blocked out the bad, I wish her well , I have a new chapter in my book of life now and your new chapter will open sooner than you think Les. Keep the faith.

 

[Les Biehn]

I seperated from my wife 2 years ago after 13 years , some nights over the next year I did not know if I would make it, and I found 3-4am in the morning hell, i always woke up and felt like shit, I was barely functioning and drink can help but does not solve the long term problem. I have now met someone else who is lovely but completely different, I still think of the ex every day and miss her and i guess always will and remember our good times together and have blocked out the bad, I wish her well , I have a new chapter in my book of life now and your new chapter will open sooner than you think Les. Keep the faith.

Cheers Unc, glad to here you made it through. Who else's film taste would I take the piss out of! Seriously though cheers mate.

 

[delboy56]

What is it that makes the knot in your chest and the panic in your head when you break up with someone you like. Just curious like and thought one of the brain boxes on here might know.

It's all about being close to someone & then suddenly being cut off that hurts! It takes a while for it to sink in & make sense. The best way is not to get too involved too fast, I learned that to my cost. Next time you meet a girl don't get **** struck just take it one day at a time & let her like you, Then if she does want you she'll have you. Don't have these problems with Mrs Bulldog anymore bacause divorcing her was the best thing I ever done for our relationship! Marriage is ok but there's nothing like a good divorce to cheer you up!