Chemical reaction to relationship break up?

[Meade's Ball]

f*** that shit. Getting off at Burgess and jogging home from there then doing an hour of weights. It weird the whole time I do it I feel much better.

I went into pick my bike up today as the brakes were being repaired. I had to tell them it is a bit of a girl's bike and they should being it working to me without ridicule. He asked why i have a feminine pedal so i told him my last cycle and i were punishingly crushed by horned haters and doubters in an array of haunted bugs that had my deathdate on their number plates. I don't know why i bothered making something up, but to say the truth or that i can't remember seemed too boring to offer.

In a while, your sadness will be an anecdote.

 

[Chicken Run]

I seperated from my wife 2 years ago after 13 years , some nights over the next year I did not know if I would make it, and I found 3-4am in the morning hell, i always woke up and felt like shit, I was barely functioning and drink can help but does not solve the long term problem. I have now met someone else who is lovely but completely different, I still think of the ex every day and miss her and i guess always will and remember our good times together and have blocked out the bad, I wish her well , I have a new chapter in my book of life now and your new chapter will open sooner than you think Les. Keep the faith.

f*** I need some counciling from you

 

[Uncle Spielberg]

It took me 8 months before I could even consider a new date or a simple friendly drink. It is not quick , it hurt more than having my leg sawn off without anaethetic but just remember , it will make you a stronger person and life is all about lessons and some of them are bloody hard.

You could hire out War of the Worlds Les that will take your mind off it.

Regards

US

 

[Man of Harveys]

Everyone's different - I like to pull as soon as possible after splitting up with someone. I can't see why not?

 

[delboy56]

What is it that makes the knot in your chest and the panic in your head when you break up with someone you like. Just curious like and thought one of the brain boxes on here might know.

It's about feeling close to somebody & then suddenly being cut off from them that induces this panic feeling. Step back & think of all the things you enjoyed before you met the girl and then really think about whether you'd have been happy without them? Do yourself one favour though fella, Don't think going out & getting lashed up will solve all your problems unless your willing to face the embarrasment the next day! Drinking on the back of a break up means you'll end up either bursting into tears, getting in a fight or having to be carried home.

 

[Biscuit]

Don't read this thread while listening to 'Total Eclipse of the Heart'... *sniff*

Go running mate. Put on your trainers and run and run and run. It gives you time to think.

 

[Charles 'Charley' Charles]

Still trying to forget my ex from 5 years ago, think you know the one Les She now lives in France although would take her back tomorrow without question Sorry matey supposed to be cheering you up

 

[Tight shorts]

Just been chatting to a guy at work about the same thing. I think it is so much harder for blokes to deal with.

Girlies are much more open and supportive when this happens, which blokes dont seem to do.

It will get better. Go and do something you know she would have disapproved of and love it.

 

[British Bulldog]

Re: Re: Chemical reaction to relationship break up?

It's all about being close to someone & then suddenly being cut off that hurts! It takes a while for it to sink in & make sense. The best way is not to get too involved too fast, I learned that to my cost. Next time you meet a girl don't get **** struck just take it one day at a time & let her like you, Then if she does want you she'll have you. Don't have these problems with Mrs Bulldog anymore bacause divorcing her was the best thing I ever done for our relationship! Marriage is ok but there's nothing like a good divorce to cheer you up!

Hopefully I'm now back to being British Bulldog after suddenly becoming delboy56?

 

[Les Biehn]

The thing about this is I'm an easy going bloke and I would say the two main relationships before this one went the same way, I basically was happy to make a fair bit of effort because I'm not that fussed about doing this for others. I should have made them make more effort.

I'm 27, you would have thought I would have learned by now

 

[H block]

I f***ing hope so.

You will never get over her....all other women will seem second best to her.... there are no other fish in the sea.


Dont ever go out again just sit and mope






for fucks sake it was only 3 months

 

[Les Biehn]

You will never get over her....all other women will seem second best to her.... there are no other fish in the sea.


Dont ever go out again just sit and mope






for fucks sake it was only 3 months

But you see my dear boy it wasn't. I went out with her for 3 months about a year and a half ago. I moved back down here from Manc and it kind of fizzled out because I had no money to go and see her. But for the year and a half gap I still wanted to be with her. Finally got back together with her and it was like the gap had never happened. So is more like at least 6 months.

 

[H block]

I'm in that 'I really don't to f*** another bird' stage.

Then wank a lot till you get over it....... and you will.

you might meet ''the one tomorrow'' so dont come across too sombre or she might just walk past you.

 

[Les Biehn]

Then wank a lot till you get over it....... and you will.

you might meet ''the one tomorrow'' so dont come across too sombre or she might just walk past you.

I have hardly been upset at all, just the nature of it has left me head scratching. Rather a lot.

 

[H block]

I have hardly been upset at all, just the nature of it has left me head scratching. Rather a lot.

you hard nosed bastard.

as long as its only your head thats getting scratched.She could have left you with worse.


My prediction is you will meet Miss right within the year.

I met mine within weeks of getting dumped but it took me a little while to realise that.

 

[Les Biehn]

you hard nosed bastard.

as long as its only your head thats getting scratched.She could have left you with worse.


My prediction is you will meet Miss right within the year.

I met mine within weeks of getting dumped but it took me a little while to realise that.

Yes, very hard nosed. Well we will see.

 

[Barnham Seagull]

Very hard ending a relationship, it's even harder when your the one who did'nt end it.

You'll find someone else when your ready, don't rush it because it's never fair on the other person and being with someone on the rebound is crap and will never last long.

I dont think you can ever get the ex out of your system totaly as they were not only youre lover but quite often your best friend to, well thats baggage and everyone's got some.

Nothing will get rid of the pain except time, chin up fella! As they say cant live with'em cant live without them.

 

[Kylies Stunt Arse]

At least she lives miles away. It would be a whole load worse if you were bumping into her every day or if you worked together.

Stop torturing yourself looking pictures or her website (unless you're going to post the address up here for us all to have a gander. ).

Get yourself out at the weekend, get bladdered. get talking to any and every bird you see. Get confident stupid!

 

[H block]

As they say cant live with'em cant live without them.

Barnham Seagull.....................



''Can`t live with em and you can`t kill em''

is the real saying.

 

[Barnham Seagull]