Every single manager will have a trouble with this because we're a poor man's Manchester City and the best way of winning against that kind of team is to defend deep and cut off all spaces.
This has been the case basically since the game was invented. Possession based teams struggle with it because it works. And obviously it works more often against us than against Manchester City, because we're not as good at football.
Don't expect this to change soon.
(Not a European football expert here). At our last managerial changes, it did cross my mind that TB might go down the Marco Silva-esque route. Solid defence very often, mugging teams on the counter or at set pieces.
I wouldn’t have minded that, not least for giving us a respite from us being the possession based mugged team.