I offered a vote at the referendum, whether I was on the winning or losing side is of no consequence. What I do understand, we are dangerously close to losing our democracy. And I am totally ashamed to watch remainers not accepting a vote. Totally.
A democratic person would be willing to engage, listen and try to empathise...perhaps find out if there's any common ground.
Perhaps it's you that's endangering democracy, despite your exclamations.