It is, without doubt, 1 in 2.To be honest, the first question is still 1 in 2. The only way it could be 1 in 3 is if the person posing the question deliberately looked for a man with a boy, and even then it depends on how the man was selected. And that's not a reasonable assumption from the question.
The only fair assumption it's possible to make is that the man was chosen randomly and that we were randomly chosen the gender of one of his children. And it's 1 in 2.