- Apr 5, 2014
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Well it's good to see a considered and reasonable reply, rather than threats of violence!
I don't think my original post was actually nasty in any way. It was horrible what happened to the poor kid but horrible things happen to football fans every day and personally I believe that there has to be some separation between the nastiness in society and football matches which are, football matches.
Tomorrow my complete focus on our game is beating Preston and I would rather sympathise with poor Dylan in a different, out of game way, like putting a tenner in a bucket for his poor grieving family.
You're unlikely to ever hear from me again as Simmo/Simmo's henchmen do for me at half time so bye-bye.
I won't dismiss your point out of hand from an emotional point of view, thus I won't jump on an bandwagon of frustrated aggression. However, the request made was not binding so needs no objectionable response. Not one so public anyway.
But let's go to your sub-text which is lost to people's, justified by you're ignorance of the thread's first entry, anger. I don't believe that football should be separated from the nastiness in society as a look at social forums often indicates that it is a catalyst amongst some that stirs it. So a display of solidarity such as the one asked for, serves two purposes. Firstly a direct and visual acknowledgement of the pain that those who immediately were affected are suffering. Secondly a momentary departure from the tribal instincts that, mostly benignly, separate us and Preston North End fans tomorrow. We acknowledge that we are rivals that want to beat each other for 89 minutes, but for one minute we show that, actually, we are a family of souls with a common interest- and we all recognise that someone who enjoyed this was deprived of something that must have driven his happiest days in such an awful and heartbreaking way. For that moment we not separated as football fans or separated from society.
For me that shows that football is not about hating or loving, winning or losing, it is in fact an extension of the part of the major part of society that isn't actually nasty. A tenner in a bucket is most welcome I'm sure. But I'm sure those who suffer would be more encouraged by a public display of solidarity from all quarters of the world of one of the lad's greatest joys.
Join in and you'll understand.