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Mustafa II

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I must admit I kind of agree with Trump on this one.

Being able to categorise all people as either male or female is really useful when it comes to protecting women and children in our society.

It's important to be inclusive towards as many people as we can be, but this is one matter that isn't likely to ever have a satisfactory conclusion.
 




sussex_guy2k2

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And that’s the problem with gender and sex and why it is a godsend to ‘anti-woke’ culture war stokers.

This is a very simple question where some people need a simple answer. However, the answers are very complex depending on situation and circumstance. A division of ‘two’ does not fully represent the population, either in sex or gender.

Those who need simple answers to what they perceive as simple questions (but actually are not) find Trumpism very alluring, however, his answers are very rarely solutions. Just hate.

But perhaps there is a simple answer? Try being nice to people instead of trying to divide them.
I’d be interested to know how many of those opposed to Trans people have actually met any people who have or are transitioning, considering the tiny percentage of the whole population that consider themselves to be trans. And from that number, I wonder how many have had a conversation about why they are trans. I don’t imagine the numbers are that high, why begs the question why this is at the forefront of social, culture conversation when there are many bigger issues going on.

Personally, I don’t really understand the need some have to transition, as I’ve never had those feelings. And I certainly think there needs to be some protection in place for women, and some regulation around trans people entering gendered sports competitions.

But overall I don’t really see how anyone can get that worked up about people transitioning when there’s so few trans people and the impact of them is so tiny. It does, as you say, feel like the anti-woke groups’ need to clarify things in their own limited minds, even if that clarity comes at the expense of trans people who are likely to suffer even more bullying and violence than they already do.
 


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I’d be interested to know how many of those opposed to Trans people have actually met any people who have or are transitioning, considering the tiny percentage of the whole population that consider themselves to be trans. And from that number, I wonder how many have had a conversation about why they are trans. I don’t imagine the numbers are that high, why begs the question why this is at the forefront of social, culture conversation when there are many bigger issues going on.

Personally, I don’t really understand the need some have to transition, as I’ve never had those feelings. And I certainly think there needs to be some protection in place for women, and some regulation around trans people entering gendered sports competitions.

But overall I don’t really see how anyone can get that worked up about people transitioning when there’s so few trans people and the impact of them is so tiny. It does, as you say, feel like the anti-woke groups’ need to clarify things in their own limited minds, even if that clarity comes at the expense of trans people who are likely to suffer even more bullying and violence than they already do.
Brilliant post.
 




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I’d be interested to know how many of those opposed to Trans people have actually met any people who have or are transitioning, considering the tiny percentage of the whole population that consider themselves to be trans. And from that number, I wonder how many have had a conversation about why they are trans. I don’t imagine the numbers are that high, why begs the question why this is at the forefront of social, culture conversation when there are many bigger issues going on.

Personally, I don’t really understand the need some have to transition, as I’ve never had those feelings. And I certainly think there needs to be some protection in place for women, and some regulation around trans people entering gendered sports competitions.

But overall I don’t really see how anyone can get that worked up about people transitioning when there’s so few trans people and the impact of them is so tiny. It does, as you say, feel like the anti-woke groups’ need to clarify things in their own limited minds, even if that clarity comes at the expense of trans people who are likely to suffer even more bullying and violence than they already do.
Yeh but you're a man so it doesn't affect you. This is a women's issue who represent over 50% of the population
 
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Yeh but you're a man so it doesn't affect you. This is a women's issue who represent over 50% of the population
Unless you are a woman, you therefore shouldn't be commenting either.
 


FamilyGuy

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I must admit I kind of agree with Trump on this one.

Being able to categorise all people as either male or female is really useful when it comes to protecting women and children in our society.

It's important to be inclusive towards as many people as we can be, but this is one matter that isn't likely to ever have a satisfactory conclusion.
Protecting against who or what (genuine question)?
And do any males need protecting too - either against the same things or something different?
 




Mustafa II

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Protecting against who or what (genuine question)?
And do any males need protecting too - either against the same things or something different?

It's just my opinion, and I accept that it's controversial to some, but I don't think people who were born male should be allowed in female private spaces. There are examples where women have been harmed as a result of this, for examples in toilets or in prisons. I don't think people born male should be allowed to compete in women's sport, as they usually have some advantage, if not a significant one.

Men are naturally stronger than women and so women need more protection in their lives. Even though there are likely as many bad women as there are bad men, the bad men are a greater threat to women, than vice versa... and that fact doesn't change if their genders are not the same as the sex they are born with.
 




FamilyGuy

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It's just my opinion, and I accept that it's controversial to some, but I don't think people who were born male should be allowed in female private spaces. There are examples where women have been harmed as a result of this, for examples in toilets or in prisons. I don't think people born male should be allowed to compete in women's sport, as they usually have some advantage, if not a significant one.

Men are naturally stronger than women and so women need more protection in their lives. Even though there are likely as many bad women as there are bad men, the bad men are a greater threat to women, than vice versa... and that fact doesn't change if their genders are not the same as the sex they are born with.
Some men may be stronger than women (it would be v easy to give examples), however the reverse is also true - and I guess that's the flaw/complexity in this logic.

I tend to agree with you about the competing in sports things, however again, it should be two-way - ie women should not be allowed to compete in men-only sports (again there are exceptions - darts etc).

Bad men are not necessarily a greater threat than bad women - its just not that black and white.

I tend to agree with your overarching arguments, however its my opinion that you're portraying it as being a world of binary, one-way decisions (no pun intended), and that is simply not the case. I've met women who are "badder" than men and I know women who are stronger than men. Some sports lend themselves to mixed-sex players (however perhaps that's a red herring here).

It's complicated.
 




n1 gull

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I’d love to hear the explanation for this. Please do go on.
It's mainly a female issue as it is their rights that are affected

Women's sport, Women's shelters, Women's toilets, Women's changing rooms, Women's prisons, Women's only groups including lesbian groups, Women's breast feeding classes etc...

I'm not an expert but I've done a bit of reading - Helen Joyce, Katherine Stock, JK Rowling and I recommend the Graham Lineham book which is about how he got cancelled from the entertainment industry for his views on the subject
 


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Some men may be stronger than women (it would be v easy to give examples), however the reverse is also true - and I guess that's the flaw/complexity in this logic.

I tend to agree with you about the competing in sports things, however again, it should be two-way - ie women should not be allowed to compete in men-only sports (again there are exceptions - darts etc).

Bad men are not necessarily a greater threat than bad women - its just not that black and white.

I tend to agree with your overarching arguments, however its my opinion that you're portraying it as being a world of binary, one-way decisions (no pun intended), and that is simply not the case. I've met women who are "badder" than men and I know women who are stronger than men. Some sports lend themselves to mixed-sex players (however perhaps that's a red herring here).

It's complicated.

I'm pretty sure "bad women" isn't an argument against having female only spaces.

As a male, I am more than happy to be discriminated against in this respect.
 


Mustafa II

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Some men may be stronger than women (it would be v easy to give examples), however the reverse is also true - and I guess that's the flaw/complexity in this logic.

I tend to agree with you about the competing in sports things, however again, it should be two-way - ie women should not be allowed to compete in men-only sports (again there are exceptions - darts etc).

Bad men are not necessarily a greater threat than bad women - its just not that black and white.

I tend to agree with your overarching arguments, however its my opinion that you're portraying it as being a world of binary, one-way decisions (no pun intended), and that is simply not the case. I've met women who are "badder" than men and I know women who are stronger than men. Some sports lend themselves to mixed-sex players (however perhaps that's a red herring here).

It's complicated.

It's not complicated, it's actually very simple. This cultural problem is what's making it complicated. There are two sexes - men and women - and men are almost all of the time considerably stronger than women, but of course with a few exceptions as you are suggesting.

Our biology means that a super fit 21 year old woman who lifts weights at the gym every day can easily be overpowered by a 45 year old bloke who has never been to the gym in his life. It's terribly unfair, but it is the reality.

There is also the biological trait of men 'needing' sexual gratification. I'm a bloke and I'm very much supportive of the wellbeing and the rights of men, and I believe that most men are good, but it is not untrue to say that some men - even if they identify as another gender - can be likely to pursue sexual gratification in ways that can harm women and children.
 




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sussex_guy2k2

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It's mainly a female issue as it is their rights that are affected

Women's sport, Women's shelters, Women's toilets, Women's changing rooms, Women's prisons, Women's only groups including lesbian groups, Women's breast feeding classes etc...

I'm not an expert but I've done a bit of reading - Helen Joyce, Katherine Stock, JK Rowling and I recommend the Graham Lineham book which is about how he got cancelled from the entertainment industry for his views on the subject
So the US President, a man, is allowed an opinion, and you, I assume a man, are allowed to decide which gender this issue is attributed to and affects the most, but I, as a man, am not allowed an opinion of Trans issues?

No one is being cancelled on a football message board for having an opinion on this.
 


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It's not complicated, it's actually very simple. This cultural problem is what's making it complicated. There are two sexes - men and women - and men are almost all of the time considerably stronger than women, but of course with a few exceptions as you are suggesting.

Our biology means that a super fit 21 year old woman who lifts weights at the gym every day can easily be overpowered by a 45 year old bloke who has never been to the gym in his life. It's terribly unfair, but it is the reality.

There is also the biological trait of men 'needing' sexual gratification. I'm a bloke and I'm very much supportive of the wellbeing and the rights of men, and I believe that most men are good, but it is not untrue to say that some men - even if they identify as another gender - can be likely to pursue sexual gratification in ways that can harm women and children.
True, the trans issue is even simpler. Women that remove their womanly bits to become “men” remain lesbians. They are just the SS of lesbians.

The fellas though, they need to be separated between those pre op and post op.

Post op they have a plausible argument to access female only spaces (I would let the natural females have the call on that).

Pre op they remain geezers and should be treated as such till they are post op.

There should be a referendum on whether pre trans op men are allowed to access female only spaces, the Govt and its institutions can’t be trusted to run a post office.

It really is that straightforward.
 


FamilyGuy

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It's not complicated, it's actually very simple. This cultural problem is what's making it complicated. There are two sexes - men and women - and men are almost all of the time considerably stronger than women, but of course with a few exceptions as you are suggesting.

Our biology meins that a super fit 21 year old woman who lifts weights at the gym every day can easily be overpowered by a 45 year old bloke who has never been to the gym in his life. It's terribly unfair, but it is the reality.

There is also the biological trait of men 'needing' sexual gratification. I'm a bloke and I'm very much supportive of the wellbeing and the rights of men, and I believe that most men are good, but it is not untrue to say that some men - even if they identify as another gender - can be likely to pursue sexual gratification in ways that can harm women and children.
Like I said; I think you and I differ in the "black and whiteness" of things. Not that it matters, we simply disagree on this point - and the world turns. :thumbsup:
 




stewart12

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It's just my opinion, and I accept that it's controversial to some, but I don't think people who were born male should be allowed in female private spaces. There are examples where women have been harmed as a result of this, for examples in toilets or in prisons. I don't think people born male should be allowed to compete in women's sport, as they usually have some advantage, if not a significant one.

Men are naturally stronger than women and so women need more protection in their lives. Even though there are likely as many bad women as there are bad men, the bad men are a greater threat to women, than vice versa... and that fact doesn't change if their genders are not the same as the sex they are born with.
The door or a women's public toilet isn't some magical forcefield that predatory men can't get through. If a man wants to rape a woman in a public toilet they don't need a pair of high heels, years worth of hormone treatment and invasive surgeries to do so

Having worked with numerous members of the trans community in various support working situations I can tell you that without exception they find every trip to a Public toilet an incredibly stressful and nerve shredding experience, and just want to get in and out without being noticed. Every single woman you or I know will have been in a women's toilet with a trans woman without knowing it on countless occasions. Have any women that you know been abused by a trans woman in a public toilet?

The alternative is, of course, to insist on people who present as female using male toilets.

Ultimately I just don't think this is anywhere near as straightforward as people like.
 


n1 gull

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So the US President, a man, is allowed an opinion, and you, I assume a man, are allowed to decide which gender this issue is attributed to and affects the most, but I, as a man, am not allowed an opinion of Trans issues?

No one is being cancelled on a football message board for having an opinion on this.
I have not once said you can't have an opinion.

Of course no one should get cancelled.

I was stating that the writer of Father Ted the comedy show got cancelled
 


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