It's a sad state of affairs when poxy gender wars based on spurious and misguided stereotypes have to take place in something so significant as a child's development.
But why start the gender war?
Women have children, we raise children and personally I (with a good deal of help from my fantastic husband) do it pretty darn well I hope. (I have a happy well behaved, contented nearly 4 year old).
Why is it so abhorrent in this day and age to allow ourselves to say men are hunter gatherers and women raise families? I'm no feminist and frankly some feminist ideals come from family lazy women with bratty children!