Long Distance Relationships

[virgirlo]

Its good to see your one worked. But say for example, one weekend she's busy. Then the following he's busy for example. Then that'll be 3 weeks they don't see each other. I couldn't go without seeing my gf for that long.

uh-oh....clingy bloke alert!

 

[Scoffers]

Well, I guess it's down to what you want out of life.

Surely the risk of infedility increases with this type of relationship

 

[Tony Meolas Loan Spell]

Virgirlo. Surely not cheating on your new man!!

Magoo??

 

[seagull247]

?

 

[Marshy]

Sounds to me like your a girl that likes to keep her options open.
Dosent want to much commitment, and just a bit of fun at present.

Nothing wrong with that.

 

[virgirlo]

too bloody right, marshy

 

[tedebear]

Most certainly not...I have been single for two years and really enjoy being independent. But I do quite like the guy and would like to see how things go, but weekends only is a pain in the arse as I go to Albion games and he plays rugby (not usually into rugby men either!)

I think since you're asking the question that you're hearts not really in it!! If you were keen as mustard then the question probable wouldn't come up? IMHO

 

[Tesco in Disguise]

they only work if you're sure the person you're with is the one for you. i thought i was in love with a girl but she moved to france and we split up. if you still want to go out with someone that you cannot shag at every opportunity, you've got someone special.

 

[enigma]

If you really like the guy and you trust him then distance aint a problem.

 

[Goring Gull]

Long distance Clara

 

[Mr C]

Two hours by train? Wish my fiancee was two hours away by train

That's positively a "next door" relationship

 

[robbied69]

Thanks for the advice.

Have already been out with a couple of brighton supporters....didn't work. At least by seeing someone who is into rugby means no football arguements. And the distance means that I can keep my space, nothing worse than CLINGY MEN!!

But I would love to have more hugs, kisses and general naughtiness....any offers

Yes please. Where you located?

 

[robbied69]

Does a two hour train journey count?
And do they work?
And can I be bothered?

Advice needed...

To be blunt, if your questioning it. I think you half think its not worth it.

 

[Mick Beard BHA]

Re: Re: Long Distance Relationships

To be blunt, if your questioning it. I think you half think its not worth it.

Agree with this in principle Rob; however, a few years back it took me ages to decide whether or not to start a long-distance relationship (london - Spain), i eventually decided yes..

We're getting married next year

Although if i'm honest there were other factors involved (ie. we knew each other very well, so trust wasnt an issue etc)

 

[Grendel]

In my experience they don't work. Having said that, I haven't had a short distance relationship thats worked either.

 

[robbied69]

I've just realised who am I am to give advice. I can't even keep a girl who I liked for more than a month.

 

[SULLY COULDNT SHOOT]

Does a two hour train journey count?
And do they work?
And can I be bothered?

Advice needed...

No.

Yes providing you know that sooner or later one of you is going to move or there's an agreed place in the middle... you need something to focus on

you should be... happily married to a women I started dating when I was in the UK and she in Turkey... spent only six weeks together in the first year.... but 100% worth it.

 

[Scoffers]

In my experience they don't work. Having said that, I haven't had a short distance relationship thats worked either.

It's these types of posts that keep me hooked to NSC. More more more I say !

 

[Grendel]

It's these types of posts that keep me hooked to NSC. More more more I say !

Don't know what to say to that...

 

[virgirlo]

I do know the guy really well, so if we decide to put a stop to things it shouldn't be a problem. BUT, I am settled with my own place and a good job, so will not be moving. Whereas he has none of the above....