virgirlo said:Does a two hour train journey count?
And do they work?
And can I be bothered?
Advice needed...
Tony Meolas Loan Spell said:No
Yes
Only you can answer that. If your heart isnt in it then no point carrying on. Unless like one of my mates you have to have a partner coz you just cant stand the thought of being single.
bhafc99 said:In my experience, yes.
I met a girl three weeks before I moved from London to Edinburgh. Despite being 400 miles apart for over a year, the relationship blossomed, and we're still together four years on (though now together in Maidenhead!).
In fact, if I'm honest, I slightly prefer a distance relationship.
It gives you both a degree of personal space and time, as you're not in each other's face all the time.
It DOES make the time together more precious, despite that being a cliche. When we were distance-relationshipping, we'd do something special every weekend. Now too many of them are lost to the Tescos/DIY/local pub vortex that is average domestic life.
And it made us do things like exchange emails/'little things in the post' etc more often, which can be a nice way to nurture a relationship rather than just grunting at each other over EastEnders.
virgirlo said:
But I would love to have more hugs, kisses and general naughtiness....any offers