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Bigbelly

Banned
Sep 24, 2011
1,930
Can't cope anymore. It's 5 to one in the morning and had enough. my dad walked out an hour ago and has dementia, god knows where he's gone and what he'll do. I'm at the end of the line. I don't know what to do anymore.
 








Bigbelly

Banned
Sep 24, 2011
1,930
No one cares about his wellfair, they only care about the inheritance money which there is £££ I need tablets to sleep. It f***ing winds me up, I've only cared for him. Had enough. You're all nice people on NSC, shall miss you all, take care. Bye.
 


Husty

Mooderator
Oct 18, 2008
11,997
No one cares about his wellfair, they only care about the inheritance money which there is £££ I need tablets to sleep. It f***ing winds me up, I've only cared for him. Had enough. You're all nice people on NSC, shall miss you all, take care. Bye.

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Sussex Nomad

Well-known member
Aug 26, 2010
18,185
EP
Can't cope anymore. It's 5 to one in the morning and had enough. my dad walked out an hour ago and has dementia, god knows where he's gone and what he'll do. I'm at the end of the line. I don't know what to do anymore.

Get a life?
 


Bigbelly

Banned
Sep 24, 2011
1,930
08457 90 90 90 (Samartians Number)

There ARE people who want to help you mate, get in touch with them.



Thanks Husty. You are great. Problem I have is nightmare Serrano. Have spoke with the family doctor and all she ( Mrs ferry ) says is have you spoke with anyone? She doesn't understand, Why would I want to speck with uni students who have a degree? I want to speck with people who have been in that situation dealing with people who have dementia. My dad isn't back, really worried now. Hope he's ok as if the worse happens then I'll be arrested for murder.
 








Husty

Mooderator
Oct 18, 2008
11,997
Thanks Husty. You are great. Problem I have is nightmare Serrano. Have spoke with the family doctor and all she ( Mrs ferry ) says is have you spoke with anyone? She doesn't understand, Why would I want to speck with uni students who have a degree? I want to speck with people who have been in that situation dealing with people who have dementia. My dad isn't back, really worried now. Hope he's ok as if the worse happens then I'll be arrested for murder.

I'm sure what you're doing through is terrible and I'm well aware I am very fortunate to have never been put through a similar situation, there are people who can help and it is never worth doing anything reckless in the short term. No one would accuse you of murder but if you are worried about your dad then give the police a ring, we all like to bash them but they are here for situations like this.
 






Bigbelly

Banned
Sep 24, 2011
1,930
I'm sure what you're doing through is terrible and I'm well aware I am very fortunate to have never been put through a similar situation, there are people who can help and it is never worth doing anything reckless in the short term. No one would accuse you of murder but if you are worried about your dad then give the police a ring, we all like to bash them but they are here for situations like this.


I really want to phone the police but don't want to waste their time as they have more important things to get on with . He's still not back and he's not taken his medication either, he'll not survive the night outside.I've been out looking for him but gave up.
 


Husty

Mooderator
Oct 18, 2008
11,997
He's still not back and he's not taken his medication either, he'll not survive the night outside.I've been out looking for him but gave up.

Then it's best to phone the police, on a Sunday evening in Brighton I can't imagine they'll have too much on their hands, I'm sure Edna would agree with me that it is not a waste of their time.
 






WardysLoveChild

New member
Sep 24, 2012
6
Give the taxi companies a call mate. Give them a recent location and a description of your dad and they will look out for him and if they see him will call it in to base.
They get a lot of calls when kids go missing and you would be suprised with the success rate.
There's a lot more cabs driving about the city than police
Good luck finding him
 


bravohotelalpha

Well-known member
Jan 23, 2011
2,642
Good Old Sussex By The Sea
I'm assuming you are in the Brighton area - there is a local Alzheimer's organisation based in woodingdean and I know the day hospital in new church rd in hove has all sorts of specialists - medical and non medical for people with dementia. Pm me if you would like me to forward exact details.
You can and will get through this - you don't have to do this by yourself, all us nsc nuts are always here for you and there is specialist help and support out there. Best wishes x
 


algie

The moaning of life
Jan 8, 2006
14,713
In rehab
Ignore the knobs on here. I know very much the situation with your old man and if he isn't back yet then phone the police right away.

Oh and look into some of the great advice being offered on here if you haven't already.

You can always pm me for a chat :thumbsup:
 


D

Deleted member 22389

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I really want to phone the police but don't want to waste their time as they have more important things to get on with . He's still not back and he's not taken his medication either, he'll not survive the night outside.I've been out looking for him but gave up.

Word of advice. My dad used to suffer from Bi Polar disorder, and used to leave the house at all the times of the night. It used leave me and my mum completely and utterly stressed out. Phone the police as soon as you can, honestly your not wasting their time.
 






Ludensian Gull

Well-known member
Apr 18, 2009
3,850
Mistley Essex
Just got up & seen this , any news on him yet mate ? If not contact the police , sure they will be very concerned given the circumstances .
 


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