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Revenge.
A dish best served cold.
A dish best served cold.
That's his problem. Your boy's problem is bullying at work. It's only fair to go to the hotel manager to give him a chance to address your son's complaint. But if that looks like a non-starter, keep a diary, try and get some documentary evidence, then use employment laws.
Not nice.
No advice to offer I'm afraid, but some nob will be on at some point to say something like 'grow some balls' or some such crap.
Actually if the Hotel Manager does not act your son can resign and immediately start proceedings for constructive dismissal. As long as the manager knows this unless he's an idiot he will have to act or face paying compensation plus bad publicity which he will have to explain to his bosses. Worth noting that should your son do the natural thing and retaliate he could end up on the wrong side of the law.
Firstly, you say he hit him. Well that could be a punch or just a cuff on the back of the head. I would presume it is the latter so before approaching the hotel manager and making enemies, surely he needs to have a quiet word with the chef and tell him that he wants to learn from him but that he doesn't appreciate physical admonishment. In most situations being shouted out would not be accepted but if you work in a kitchen then one would presume you have seen how Ramsay and Pierre White act so you probably have to accept it if you want to get on.
As for the hot fat, tell the guy who did it not to do it. If he repeats it then speak to the head chef.
Take it up with the protaganists firsts otherwise they will instantly be enemies. It could well be they were testing his resolve to see how far they can go. Make a stand now before it gets worse at which point there is normally no going back. Yes, you might be able to sue but if you want to work in the industry you don't want a reputation to follow you around, especially if similar practices go on elsewhere.
I was a kitchen porter for a few years whilst at Uni and yes, there is a bit of banter but it wasn't anything like what he's going through (hell, my head chef was ex Navy!). I think the worst I copped was when someone chucked mashed potato or cornflower at me - but we got him back by locking him in the fridge!
I cannot stand it when people openly abuse and are physically intimidating but immediately label it as banter.
My 17 yo daughter was doing pub waitressing - when the pub closed down she went to the one down the road. The chef thought that Gordan Ramsay's effing and blinding style was the norm and my daughter took a load of stick first night. She came home in tears. You can't change that kind of regime