[Misc] When you finish with the girlie

[Sussex Nomad]

Whether a month or 50 years, bit sh!t innit? What do you do (in ageing years)?

 

[Dick Head]

Chill out.

 

[Sussex Nomad]

Chill out.

Not the same though is it.

 

[Eeyore]

Not the same though is it.

Change something.

Look at your environment and make it special and personal to you. It's an appreciation of yourself. Then dwell in it and enjoy it. Always makes a difference.

Relationships are often temporary, but you are always a part of your surroundings.

 

[jackanada]

For women of a certain age you may not need that much going for you to be a catch.
If you can tick any of these you may well be in.

Ambulatory
Majority of own teeth.
Continent.
Pension.
Respectably dressed.

 

[Sussex Nomad]

I'll stew in my depression... cheers lads.

 

[Dick Head]

I'll stew in my depression... cheers lads.

Chill out.

It works.

Honest.

 

[DavePage]

Just bang one out, I know it will remind you of what she used to do for you 40 years ago, it will take the edge off

 

[sydney]

I'll stew in my depression... cheers lads.

time heals all ....keep yer chin up mate x

 

[Music City Gull]

Whether a month or 50 years, bit sh!t innit? What do you do (in ageing years)?

Start trying 2-3 thing outside of your comfort zone. Wear a color you’re not used to, go to an event you wouldn’t normally attend, etc., it’s amazing how a little bit of self growth and experience can help your mind move on.

Hope everything is going alright.

 

[junior]

Go and bang a whore.

 

[DavePage]

Go and bang a whore.

Pardew? That’s random

 

[Ⓩ-Ⓐ-Ⓜ-Ⓞ-Ⓡ-Ⓐ]

Whether a month or 50 years, bit sh!t innit? What do you do (in ageing years)?

I think with a little bit more info about you and your particular situation, you'd get some more helpful answers. I'm sure things will get easier in time!

 

[Sheebo]

Often find myself helping mates in this situation - was doing just that last night as it goes. It’s a horrible feeling and a grieving process. Don’t be afraid to talk, don’t be afraid to see a professional (they help a lot) and never conform to the 20th century because a man and get on with it’ nonsense. Gary Speed etc etc must have sadly taught us something. Feel free to PM me mate - sometimes offloading to a stranger can be refreshingly helpful.

 

[The Wookiee]

Whether a month or 50 years, bit sh!t innit? What do you do (in ageing years)?

From the thread title you say when YOU finish with a girlie. So I am assuming you finished with her? If so and you are feeling shit, perhaps you were a bit hasty in making that decision?

 

[Foul Play Rocks]

Hang out with your mates for a while. Enjoy a few drinks, have some laughs. Get some help with your tinder profile and then let the sexy time begin!

 

[DJ NOBO]

From the thread title you say when YOU finish with a girlie. So I am assuming you finished with her? If so and you are feeling shit, perhaps you were a bit hasty in making that decision?

Indeed .
Rather less painful to do the dumping than be the dumped.
Somewhere in Sussex there’ll be a sobbing Mrs ex Nomad this morning.
You’ll be fine , Sussex Nomad.

 

[Birdie Boy]

Tinder or Grinder, whichever floats your boat.

 

[Gabbafella]

It all depends on what kind of person you are as to how you deal with it. I'm very good at pushing that stuff to one side and moving on very quickly, probably because I have a lot of hobbies though. I always have something that can help me take my mind off of most situations that can bring me down.
Drawing, gaming, music, movies, going out with mates, football, do anything you can to keep your mind busy and the rest will follow.
Chin up though, life goes on, just make sure you're doing the best you can.

 

[nwgull]

Indeed .
Rather less painful to do the dumping than be the dumped.
Somewhere in Sussex there’ll be a sobbing Mrs ex Nomad this morning.
You’ll be fine , Sussex Nomad.

I’m not sure this is always true. It’s horrible when you know you’ve broken someone’s heart.