When one loses the urge.

[Nibble]

You would be surprised how wrong you are especially over 50 s

I am never surprised how wrong I am about things ;-)

 

[KZNSeagull]

You would be surprised how wrong you are especially over 50 s

Not necessarily. Depends upon the change and how they go through that and come out the other side. Some women do not want a man anywhere near them during menopause, but once it is all over they are well up for it. Or so I am told anyway. As always, it depends upon the individual.

 

[Herr Tubthumper]

This is nicely set up. I'm now looking forward to Ernest's thread

 

[Triggaaar]

Should I be worried or just be happy that at least I've still got my interest in sport?

I think you should work on your marriage.

 

[LamieRobertson]

This is a moment where a second NSC account named Mrs Honky Tonx would be useful

 

[ThePompousPaladin]

If you don't use it you will lose it

The wife or his thingy?

 

[Honky Tonx]

Some good advice from some. I trained myself not to expect sex as it seemed that when i wanted to she did not so to get back at her I would not when she wanted to and now any kind of interest in sex has gone.
I prefer sleeping in the spare room as I now tend to go to bed early and get up early. I've always slept better on my own. I've even begun to see sex as rather yucky even though it is quite natural between a man and a woman

 

[Nibble]

Some good advice from some. I trained myself not to expect sex as it seemed that when i wanted to she did not so to get back at her I would not when she wanted to and now any kind of interest in sex has gone.
I prefer sleeping in the spare room as I now tend to go to bed early and get up early. I've always slept better on my own. I've even begun to see sex as rather yucky even though it is quite natural between a man and a woman

Over sharing. Get couples therapy.

 

[nwgull]

Some good advice from some. I trained myself not to expect sex as it seemed that when i wanted to she did not so to get back at her I would not when she wanted to and now any kind of interest in sex has gone.
I prefer sleeping in the spare room as I now tend to go to bed early and get up early. I've always slept better on my own. I've even begun to see sex as rather yucky even though it is quite natural between a man and a woman

None of the above is healthy. Neither the passive aggressiveness, or the loss of libido to such an extent.

 

[PHCgull]

As others have suggested, bite the bullet and talk to your Mrs about it.

If she's happy to declare the innings closed too then you'll both feel relieved to have talked about it.

If she's still gagging for a good seeing to, get yourself onto Lloyds pharmacy .com, buy yourself some viagra and that will give you something you could dig the road up with.

 

[El Presidente]

I have taken the wife to watch the Albion but she's just not that interested.

If it was last season who can blame her?

 

[Easy 10]

buy yourself some viagra and that will give you something you could dig the road up with.

Loving the subtlety.

 

[Honky Tonx]

If it was last season who can blame her?

The last time was when we had Vicente and her comment was, " what the f..k is he doing here, he's far too good." She knows something about football.

 

[Danny-Boy]

Not necessarily. Depends upon the change and how they go through that and come out the other side. Some women do not want a man anywhere near them during menopause, but once it is all over they are well up for it. Or so I am told anyway. As always, it depends upon the individual.

Or whether they go on HRT...seen some surprising behaviour from one or two who have.

 

[Danny-Boy]

The last time I took my girlfriend to watch a game she went gooey-eyed over Vince Hilaire. Mind you he did have a major Afro at the time

http://www.holmesdale.net/page.php?id=111&player=378

I bet he hasn't got one now though...

 

[Freddie Goodwin.]

It's a bit like football, I still like to talk about it and watch but I just don't play anymore!

 

[Thunder Bolt]

Some good advice from some. I trained myself not to expect sex as it seemed that when i wanted to she did not so to get back at her I would not when she wanted to and now any kind of interest in sex has gone.
I prefer sleeping in the spare room as I now tend to go to bed early and get up early. I've always slept better on my own. I've even begun to see sex as rather yucky even though it is quite natural between a man and a woman

It doesn't help that you saw sex as a 'threat' to use against her. If you want to revive any sort of romance between you, then go out on 'dates' again. Find that 'best friend' you used to have.

 

[Return of the Rev]

It's a bit like football, I still like to talk about it and watch but I just don't play anymore!

But watching only takes a minute unlike footie that can last for 85 minutes sometimes

 

[dazzer6666]

Same age, still 'urging', just not as often. Just go with the flow unless your missus still wants to. Would be best to have a natter to her about it

This (from another older git). Bit less frequent these days maybe, but quality can be maintained.........

 

[knocky1]

But watching only takes a minute unlike footie that can last for 85 minutes sometimes

We can see you sneaking out.........