Already planned for ' Sussex by the sea ' followed by 'abide with me' and as for poss attendees, dressed in BHA shirts or colours please.
I actually chose that at my Dad's funeral to go out to, as that was his 'party piece' at family do's, etc. He came in in to Sussex by the Sea, and one of the hymns was Abide With Me.
No songs, but just a few chants of 'Cheerio, cheerio, cheerio...' and 'Is there a fire drill?' when cremated.
I'd like to apologize in advance for leaving 5 minutes early.