CherryInHove
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- Apr 16, 2015
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So, you think it would be absolutely fine for a baker to refuse to make a cake for someone because they are black?
Edit - That was to dingodan.
Edit - That was to dingodan.
You are mixing up 'rights' and 'duties'.
Everyone has a duty under the law not to discriminate against someone on the grounds of their sexual orientation.
Everyone has the right under the law to be treated withouted prejudice based on their sexual orientation.
No matter how you present it, if someone offers a service to the general public they have a duty to offer that service to everyone, irrespective of their race, colour, religion or sexual orientation.
Really? Is that the best you've got?
Slang definitions & phrases for hell:
An exclamation of disgust, regret, emphasis, etc : Oh hell, they're back/ Hell, darling, I didn't mean it. (Source = dictionary.com)
Who'd have thought that words have multiple uses and meanings.
If a baker decides that they don't want to make a cake for someone, anyone, that decision is not stopping anyone from living their lives, or most importantly, it is not using force against anyone.
Do you consider that to be a "sexuality"?
Do you think homosexuality and pedophilia are comparable? Because I don't.
You obviously dont know the correct meaning of the word if you define homosexuality as normal, I'm not passing judgement, but it's clearly abnormal.But it is.
The message that person is sending out is one of intolerance towards something which wider society has said is normal. It sends out a poor message.
The impact on the individual denied the cake, and the wider message to society - which in this case is basically trying to reinforce the idea that homosexuality is unacceptable - is damaging.
Same sex marriages are normal. Homosexuality is normal. Having brown hair is normal.
Even on a microlevel of pure convenience it is stopping people from living their lives. No, you can't buy a cake from this shop, go somewhere else. That's inconvenient and has stopped me living my life - even momentarily.
PS: I have brown hair.
You obviously dont know the correct meaning of the word if you define homosexuality as normal, I'm not passing judgement, but it's clearly abnormal.
"Burn in hell" very clearly defines one particular meaning.
But it is.
The message that person is sending out is one of intolerance towards something which wider society has said is normal. It sends out a poor message.
The impact on the individual denied the cake, and the wider message to society - which in this case is basically trying to reinforce the idea that homosexuality is unacceptable - is damaging.
Same sex marriages are normal. Homosexuality is normal. Having brown hair is normal.
Even on a microlevel of pure convenience it is stopping people from living their lives. No, you can't buy a cake from this shop, go somewhere else. That's inconvenient and has stopped me living my life - even momentarily.
PS: I have brown hair.
Abnormal? You find homosexuality worrying? There may well be more heterosexuals than homosexuals I grant you, but it is not abnormal.
You need to consider what is passive and what is active.
Doing something is active. Not doing something is passive.
As for sending out messages, we can't legislate to control what "messages" are sent out. I agree with you that in this case it sends a bad message. But you are saying that someone should decide what is a good and what is a bad message. I would remind you that homosexuality was once illegal for this very same reason. Because certain people felt it sent out a "bad message". So if you are going to defend the policing of "messages" then you are defending the means which have been used in the past to deny gay people their right to live as they choose.
You just think it's Ok, because you are sure that these "messages" are bad ones. & I agree.
But that's what homophobic legislators thought too. We have to stop trying to control other people, not because our intentions are not pure, they are. But because we forget that when we leave behind a legal apparatus which tries to manage what "messages" something sends, we will be leaving behind the very structures which could allow the wrongs of history to repeat. We don't know or control who will be legislating in 2025. Could they be a bigot? If they are they can use what you are arguing for, and they can use it to punish the very minorities that you propose that it will protect.
I'm suggesting that we break that cycle, and I know it's counter intuitive, but protecting homosexuals long term starts with protecting everybody without exception, and regardless of how we feel about them.
Yes that's how the law works, but as I have said, it's not based on a correct understanding of what rights are. The end result of your logic is that a person can have a right to a cake, and so the baker must bake it or be denying someones rights. That's simply not true, and if you go down that road you always end up seeming to trade one persons rights for another. It's because of a misunderstanding about what rights really are. Nobody has a right to stuff or services provided by other people.
Rights must be protected by the Law, but they don't originate in Law making. The law once forbade gays from marrying, the law once forbade women from voting.
It's a subtle but important point to note that minorities in the past didn't have less rights, and then get more. They always had the same rights as everyone else, those rights were just denied. Rights are not given or taken away by lawmakers, they are only protected, or not.
This is not sexual discrimination... "gay" is not a sex
It quite clearly is.
I disagree. In this case the passive act is in a very active act. The act of refusal on the grounds of sexuality is denying that person a freedom that would otherwise be extended to someone else. That is something which we can, and should legislate against in order to advance a free society for all.
I see your point with regards to over-legislation, but in this case, extending rights to protect those that wish to deny others access to services based upon a way of life which society accepts would be a backwards step. The crowd - despite what the internet would have you believe - rarely does a good job of self-policing.
There is no extending of rights, a person has a right to make or not make a cake for anybody. It's just a question of whether that right will be defended or not.
Nobody has a right to any product or service. I want everyone to have access to every product or service that they want. But every product and service is delivered through the voluntary action of somebody else. So while I want everyone to have cake, I cannot control the baker, the same as I cannot control a homosexual. Both should be free of what I think they ought to do, and for that matter what anyone else thinks they should do.
There is no extending of rights, a person has a right to make or not make a cake for anybody. It's just a question of whether that right will be defended or not.
Nobody has a right to any product or service. I want everyone to have access to every product or service that they want. But every product and service is delivered through the voluntary action of somebody else. So while I want everyone to have cake, I cannot control the baker, the same as I cannot control a homosexual. Both should be free of what I think they ought to do, and for that matter what anyone else thinks they should do.
Did you miss the part in my original post where I said I wasn't passing judgement ? To try to pretend homosexuality is normal is quite clearly wrong , some people are homosexual , some people are heterosexual, get over it, heterosexual is quite clearly the norm, you reveal the usual bigotry and intolerance of those on the left by attempting to paint me as possessing these traits with no evidence in my post that would suggest this, either that or you're just not very bright and that is the limit of your argument.Oh.
In that case, I'll leave you to your bigotry and we'll part.
Perhaps one day a relative will let you know that they are gay and you'll see it as less worrying and undesirable.
You obviously dont know the correct meaning of the word if you define homosexuality as normal, I'm not passing judgement, but it's clearly abnormal.
No, just stating a fact.You are clearly passing judgement if you state that homosexuality is abnormal.